Do women prefer submissive or dominate

What is a bigger turn on for women, a submissive or dominate lover?

Does a women feel more powerful in the bedroom when she controls the action?

 

Usually I prefer a more submissive man, especially in a relationship. I usually can only orgasm when I'm on top. I also like to tell him what to do to please me during sex. I feel like it gives me control of the relationship and a certain power over my men.

However if its a one night stand I do enjoy receiving rough sex. I just don't want to date a man who thinks he is dominate over me.

 

Not talking about bedtime, but in general with relationships, which includes everything...I like a tender man with a hard edge.....if that makes sense....I rather have a sheep in wolf's clothing than the other way around.
I also like give and take...sometimes I am a softie and other times I can be tough....so I like that in other people, too.

 

I dont care to be in control. Not really a sub either but I do like it when he takes control. Just not to treat me as his slave or take my range of movement away.

 

I think any relationship has one stronger at some things and the other at some things, too, and it is a perfect blend in a rare perfect combination,
I am neither dominate or passive......I am a partner.

 

In the bedroom I prefer to be submissive, but in all other things, we are equals (equally dominant).

 

Men I usually prefer dominant, but I do enjoy the occasional switch

 

My partner is a dominate lover, however we do switch

 

I don't really mind who's "in charge", but being a somewhat lazy human it's nice to have the man in control. x)

 

I'm a control freak in almost everything, but in the bedroom, most of the time, I like to give up control and be the submissive. There are times though that I will take control.

 

don't do men at all - and there was no option for what I like - equals or switch either.

 

Ok, comment was a bit snarky, but at the same time - thank you drumminmama! As a confessed former English major, I do also appreciate proper use of the language.

Hard to say so without sounding pretentious, though. Ugh.

 

Outside of the "bedroom" we're 100% equals, but in the bed I'm all his. That's just the way I like it, and I have zero interest in switching.

 

I stand corrected.

 

My wife says she wouldn't & couldn't do without me as her submissive househusband but she prefers her lovers to be dominant.

 

I like for a man to be in control, BUT I want to trust him, this is a must. I want a man that is aggressive but we have talked previously about what is acceptable and what is not...

 

My wife is a soft domme/switch with me, and she's sexually submissive with her boyfriend.