Can women have orgasms from anal sex, or can they only do orgasm from regular sex? I remember reading in a book about sex a long time ago that women could not have orgasms from anal, but over the past few years, I've seen a lot of posts on the Internet from women who say they really love anal sex, so I am wondering if they can orgasm from anal. I would like to hear women's opinions on this question.
So does an anal orgasm feel different than a vaginal orgasm? Would you say the anal orgasm is better, or just different?
Yes, but I need to get my clit stimulated as well. My biggest orgasms are when hubby is in my ass and the viberator is in my pussy and viberating on my clit. Those are the best!!
So just having hubby in your ass is not enough to get you off, right? You need both anal and clitoral stimulation, correct? By the way, when your husband is in your ass, do you like for him to go slow, or to go really fast and be ramming you hard with his cock?
My orgasms are stronger when we have anal sex, assisted with a vibrator on my clit, then when we have vaginal sex and use the vibrator. In my experience, climaxing during anal sex is overwhelming, as opposed to just great when climaxing from vaginal sex. When I am ready to climax during anal, I prefer dh to be still but in all the way, leading up to my orgasm I prefer a slow in and out but deep penetration.
It varies, if we start with anal I like it slow. If we do it after I like it fast. Sometimes it depends on my mood.
Completely different...not necessarily better...just different. I too like a vibrator on my clit..either during anal or vaginal sex..Add to that a dildo in the other "available" hole...That sends me over the top..lol.. Now if it is a vibrator in the available hole, that is awesome for the guy too.. WOO HOO!! Party time..lol
I gotten off twice while being fucked in the ass. I didn't have any kind of clitoral stimulation. I was still buzzing from weed and I think that helped me relax and enjoy it more. I was laying on my belly and he was fucking me and I guess he was hitting my G-spot. I came after only a few minutes (simultaneous with my husband - score!), then after about two minutes more, I came again.
100% yes women can but I'm sure there are some who can't just like some who don't seem to have a gspot to be hit (rare, but out there). My wife was never really into the idea when we first tried it because it hurt alot even with tons of lube (not trying to brag, but it is big, no other way to say it I guess). A while back we bought what we thought was some lube from a sex shop when we were restocking and when I put it on it numbed down my sensitivity big time (like novacaine lol). We laughed about it and threw it in the back of the drawer and found some other stuff and carried on. Fast forward probably 2 years. She says she wants to try anal around again but is worried about the pain. I'm doing what we did back then and digging up some lube excited to try it out again and I come accross this numbing lube and put 2 and 2 together. Sure enough I use that and let it "soak" for a minute and it doesn't hurt nearly as much anymore. She started off just with "slow" in and out for fear of the pain (at this point we did not know she could cum this way either) and within about 5 mins of that she's screaming at me to fuck her ass hard lol. She came big time to my surprize (always thought porn stars were "acting" during anal) and now she loves it. We've done it at least two dozen times all with the same results. Sorry for the long tale, hth. :cheers2:
i dont really like anal. it hurts. really it just feels like im taking a really big shit and im waiting for it to be over. one guy made my ass bleed for hours. that was terrible. i hate it. never doin it again.
OK, if it hurts that much, you're doing it wrong. And bleeding for hours? Fuck, did he just ram it in with no lube or something? You have to take your time, use LOTS of lube, and start off small, like a finger or something, then a small vibe, before you go to the dick. It helps if you've cum once or twice before you start. That way you're already relaxed and horny. And ditch the guy who had so little regard for you that he would do something to purposely harm you (which he must have been doing in order to make you bleed like that).
yea that guy was a total asshole. thank GOD im not with him anymore. maybe i'll try it again the RIGHT way with my new b/f someday...
About half of the women I've fucked in the ass climax with no additional stimulation. The other half always came when I rubbed their clit while inside them.
That's terrible, you should have kicked him in the nuts. Nothing pisses me off more when a guy just wrecks a girls ass with no remorse. I knew a girl where her boy friend would do that, and I wanted to kick his ass so bad, but she always told me not to. She said he would make her cry sometimes, it's just awful. She actually liked anal, but he was always so rough with her and didn't warm her up properly and from what she told me he was kinda big so it made it even worse. Some guys get their kicks off from dominating women like that. If you are a guy and you are like that, find a girl who is into submission, don't just do it to some girl that hates it.
