Maybe times have changed and being skinny is the thing for men now? I’m broad shouldered and have very defined muscular arms, chest and legs. I don’t have a hard six pack but I don’t have a gut at all. When I was younger, women literally were fascinated by my chest and wanted to touch it constantly. I’m also 50 plus now and so of course I’m not as nice as back then but it seems women’s taste in men have changed too. In the fashion magazines, the male models are all thin or very lightly muscled. Is that what women like now? I’m just curious.
My OH doesn't like muscley men but she doesn't like skinny either . She likes something in between the 2 . Ie Flat stomach with a 6 pack in my case but its not as defined as that on a younger guy . She prefers small but well defined guns as well. She also likes athletic legs which I have. So I guess I am perfect for her but it does take a lot of working in maintaining and I work out 4 days a week as a minimum but generally 5 days a week . I think the key thing that women like is someone who is fit. After all someone who is fit is likely to last the course in the bedroom .
I have had many women make positive comments on my build. I'm not bodybuilder muscular but very athletic. It may not be large muscles but low body fat that lets definition show.