Do women like a constant rhythm with sex?

I never really gave it much thought until the other day but it seems to me that after watching A LOT of amature porn on the internet I get frustrated when I see a guy fuck a girl half-assed. What I mean by that is that the guy will pound away for a bit (like a minute or two), stop, play around with his dick, stick it, etc etc.

For me, I've always tried to maintain a steady constant pace, starting slowly and building up while listening to her moans to indicate when to go a bit faster. So unless we're changing position, I don't really stop at it for the 10-15 minutes it takes for me to finish.

When it comes to sex, do women like it when a guy keeps at a steady pace, not stopping, but either maintaining that pace or increasing it slowly as time goes on? Or doesn't it make any difference if the rhythm is broken.

I guess it can be thought of like this for guys. You know when you're masturbating and you're about to come but your stop and the sensation goes away. Does the same thing happen to women when a guy stops pounding away?

 

I like it a lot of different ways. I don't need a constant pace. That gets a little boring. Variety is the spice of life.

 

I think stopping is actually a really good thing. The thing about women is, we're really not into racing. Take it slow, stop for awhile, focus on something other than your dick...those things are good.

I guess it depends on what kind of sex you're trying to have and if you're actually in a relationship. I still wouldn't base my sex life off of porn even if it's amateur, it's still a performance in my opinion.

 

I love when the man knows the beauty of adding the spice of variety to what he does to me and my pussy.

Bad lovers are unimaginative, but the good ones know how to vary and score.

 

I love a slow and steady pace that gets faster! But I honestly don't mind my man stopping so long as he continues to touch or finger me on my boobs, skin or kitty.
Does that help?
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Generally speaking, women require a more finessed approach from their partners, regardless of whether it is during manual or oral manipulation, or vaginal penetration. The specifics will vary greatly from woman, but most women require their partner to do specific things during specific stages of sex. Again, this will change based upon her current mood, level of sexual arousal, and upon the type of sexual act. I realize that this is a vague answer and may seem unhelpful, but it's the only all-encompassing, one-size-fits-all answer.

What you need to do is have a conversation with your partner, obviously when you aren't having sex, about what her different needs are and how those needs change. Then, while you are having sex, communicate with her. Ask her how things feel, what she wants, etc., and keep communicating as you go. Communication is a huge part of intimacy, and sex in general, and cannot be overlooked.

 

Agreed but I do want to add that in the event of an uncommunicative female partner, guys should have a generic litmus test of moves and techniques they CAN use in the bedroom.

I'm talking about oral control, good cardiovascular health, flexibility on the man's part, lick patterns, how to use the pelvis bone in combo with a thrust...and knowledge of the sympathetic and para-sympathetic nervous systems.