Do Other Woman Have This Problem?

I've always had a problem with cumming ever since I've started having sex and I don't know what the problem is. Whenever I have sex I just don't Cum.... But if I masterbaute I do. I try different things and different positions in bed but it doesn't work, yeah it feels fucking great but it doesn't make me cum. I'm kinda concerned that guys will get the wrong idea if I don't and a lot of them have questioned me about it? Can anyone help me!!!

 

That happens to a lot of women. It means you probably mainly have clitoral orgasms. I only had clitoral orgasms for the first few years of having sex actually. I still rarely orgasm without rubbing my clit at least a little bit. Get guys to rub it a bit next time your having sex.

 

I have tried but there's some positions it's just hard to do it, any suggestions on positions?

 

My boyfriend and I find it easier in any position where we are facing each other. If you ae facing away from I'm and he can't reach around you, you can always use your own hand. Vibrators are a nice addition too. Plus you can sometimes position them so they are over your clit and also a little bit on the base of his dick, so it stimulates I'm a bit.

 

i'm sure it's just you. women never fake orgasms; my girlfriend told me so...

 

You just need a hotter boyfriend

 

It's not just my boyfriend I've slept with other men before him and I've never had an orgasm, and j don't fuck around with ugly guys

 

I think we've just discovered the true nature of your problem

 

Question: When you masturbate, you are only having clitoral orgasms right?

If that's the case, is not rare that you're having trouble cumming through penetration only. You have some choices here: learn how to cum via g-spot - and possibly make yourself squirt with some good practice - and also train your pc muscles by doing lots of kegels, squeeze your bf's dick when you have sex and it will feel better.

Also, you can dump your bf and find a better dick. lol.

In all honesty though, it might also be that you haven't found the right penis that fits your pussy perfectly tight all around its walls and through its entire depth. He can also work on this too, there are ways to increase both penis size and girth, just google up penis workout, there's a lot of free stuff that works (don't expect fast results because is kinda like working out to gain muscle).

I think practice, and communication is the key for you. With time and some practice, enjoyment will come for you. Be patient, don't get frustrated, keep trying and it will come eventually.

 

Don't try too hard.

Don't hesitate to give yourself manual assistance during sex; hell half the female population do it: I certainly do! Sometimes dick alone just doesn't do it!

Don't worry about what guys are thinking.

 

It just takes practice and learning how your body works

and obviously him learning how your body works...

A good position to start in is get on top ,, if he can be in a sitting position it works better
but it is fine if he is lying down ,,,

open your self up so that your clit is bare and leaning on his pelvic bone,,,
adjust yourself so that you can feel his hardness as deep as you can take it ,,,
also if you like you can spread your ass cheeks so that your anus is resting on his balls as well

then instead of moving up and down ,,,, grind your hips against his pelvis ,,,
As you do this you should be able to feel clitoral stimulation but also you should feel exactly where your g spot is and both should be getting stimulation from the grinding movement ,,,, and if you have your anus on his balls you are getting a full trio of stimulation, if you were already aroused when you got on top you should orgasm pretty quickly ,,,,

This has never failed for me and it is a good position for you to take control of your own orgasm while still sharing with your lover

Once you have done this a few times you should be able to adjust yourself in any position to hit the same spots ,,,,

 

Maybe try adding a few more 'tags' into the thred next time

 

Geez, Rollinstoned. You always make me laugh. More tags. hahaha

And Gend1996... these folks have given you great ideas. Sometimes it takes women a while to find their 'stride'.. but once you do.... MULTIPLES!

Oh thou seeker of truth... seek not the single orgasm... seek multiple screaming yeeehawing furniture breaking orgasmic fun.

I didn't hit my stride until my thirties, when I met a truly inspired partner. After that, easy breezy.