do men cheat

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by tigerlily, Jul 28, 2006.

  1. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    because they're not getting enough sex at home?
     
  2. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    or rather, does not getting enough sex at home cause cheating?
     
  3. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    I believe very strongly in fealty, so I can't really answer from personal experience.

    But it seems to be less from not enough sex, but having more to do with promescuity when men see relationships on a downslope, and a general feeling of lack of confidence if they don't see themselves as sexually attractive to many women.

    Sexual attraction and desire for sex when they feel their needs aren't being met play into it, but I think these two issues I mentioned have more to do with it.

    Oh, BTW Tigerlilly, did you read my responce about my sig?
     
  4. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    I've cheated out boredom and out of spite.
     
  5. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    nothing like a good old fashioned hatefuck.
     
  6. dietcoketree

    dietcoketree Member

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    most definitly... i second that.
     
  7. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    that is a pretty interesting choice in words.
     
  8. wandering_okie

    wandering_okie Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    I guess if someone is doin' without.......anything is possible.
     
  9. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    i'm looking it up right now :)

    and did you mean to say fidelity or is fealty a real word that i just don't know?
     
  10. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    Fealty is another word for fidelity.

    It can also mean an oath to a feudal lord, but I don't even know any. [​IMG]
     
  11. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    In married couples, studies show that women tend to have more flings and one night stands outside of their marriages than men would have flings and one night stands. Men typically engage in intimate relationships with other women outside of their marriage for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes their wife spends a lot of time raising the kids, and doesn't have time to do the things she had been doing with her husband.

    In my personal experiences, men generally do not leave the nest unless they already have one they plan to go to while in a marriage. Men generally cheat because the sex could be different and new with someone else - and they normally feel as though their existing relationship is/has been exhausted intimately. These are the general results that I have been learning about as a student.

    Today women typically cheat for similar reasons, but they usually do not continue to pursue and maintain a relationship outside of their marriage - I guess you could conclude that they mostly do it for the sex - but I don't think that's an accurate depiction of why they cheat.
     
  12. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

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    Ahaha.
     
  13. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

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    :eek: That's hot.
     
  14. HatEd

    HatEd Member

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    We cheat because we can.
     
  15. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    No. You aren't listening to anything I've said InsaneJester - and we don't agree on this matter.

    /end
     
  16. icedteapriestess

    icedteapriestess linguistic freak

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    An old joke/adage I am sure we've all heard at one point:


    Men cheat for the same reason that dogs lick their balls.... because they can.

    Overly simple, but true in a lot of ways. Sometimes people do things just to see if they can get away with it. And while sometimes cheating is about sex, sometimes it isn't. Sometimes its about loneliness, pain, and revenge.

    And as for hate fucking... yes, the actual fucking is amazing, but it never seems to fill the hole inside that is causing the hate, does it? Well... at least it never did for me.
     
  17. Lanze

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    i think more its because were horny,,,men can tell love from sex more easily than woman usually so they can fuck around and still love their wives or girlfriends just as much.

    I dont know if id allow a boyfriend to do it but since were both horny fucks i guess it wouldnt matter that much to me as long as he doesnt kiss the guy he does it with its more about the STDS to me...and the possibility of me getting something through him
     
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