do i stop

my girlfriend wants me to stop doing drugs, as in weed and DXM and shrooms. she wants me to stop it all. but im not willing to. but i also like her quite a bit. what do i do? just not tell her of mydrug adventures?

 

Stop everything besides weed.

You could probably get away with that.

 

Hmm...well ask her what she'd think if you stopped the others, and smoked weed ocasionally? But note here that if you two have different values, (Whether they be morally d to do with drugs, etc, most times a compromise can't be reached) although that depends on how strongly you both feel about the situation.

Good luck.

 

For starters, you shouldn't have to stop smoking weed.
But, I don't advise that you continue doing those drugs without telling her. Either you want the drugs more than her, or vice versa. But, if shes giving you a choice...make it. Either her or the drugs.
In the long run, if you continue to do the drugs and not tell her about them and she finds out...it will crush her. It will also being up a HUGE trust issue between the 2 of you

 

you gotta know what you're getting into before you get serious with someone

that's why I try to find out ahead of time as much as possible. I wont' date someone who does harder drugs regularly, smokes regularly, or does a lot of pot. That's just me and my personal preferences though... I'm not goign to start dating someone who does do a bunch of drugs and then demand that he stop immediately, that's just insanity

 

stop doing them except on occasion (like once a week occasion). How much do you love her?

 

Shoot her.

 

I'm with the old guy on this one.

Tell her to go fuck herself.

 

no no. Tell her to go outside and play hide and go fuck yourself

 

what the fuck is wrong with your girlfriend... what a fucking lame bitch square...

NO

well, stop DXM... because you should anyway

does she know what it is to smoke weed or trip? maybe she should try to understand, first. compromise and understanding are important in relationships

 

Seconded

 

Yeah stop DXM...start shrooms and acid

One of my best best best smoking buddiest, actually my BEST smoking buddy recently quit because of his girlfriend (she's been nagging him for months and just broke up with him unless he quit) and I don't see it as a matter of drugs...I just see it as a matter of control personally

Is she going to try and control other aspects of you that she doesn't like? Because if she is, it could just lead to more misery...in my opinion, if it's a major issue with her, either try and educate her and bring these points up to her or move on.

 

Why did she ask you to stop?

 

She is a woman, ain't she?

 

Dont do any life changing things like that for anyone else but yourself...If you want to do thoose things do them if you dont and you quit you will resent her anyways so why quit if you dont want to

 

Did she know you did these things when you met? If that's the case, and now she wants to make wholesale changes, I'd give up my infatuation and run and not look back.

 

True story bro...

I know a guy who met his wife in univeristy.

1st... stop the drugs (same thing, weed, mushrooms, acid... light stuff).
2nd.. stop playing your music (got rid of his albums, etc).
3rd it was - cut your hair.
4... then she hated the cloaths he wore...
etc, etc, etc.

I still see this guy all the time, but he is someone else...

What is it with people.. if they can't find the perfect person for them, they try and tear down someone else, and make them become the person they want...

Think about it.. what are you demanding she change about herself? I'm not saying dump her and run... but this is a red warning flag man...

 

Only stop if it's from you. Fear of losing someone isn't really a choice.

 

well. i dont love her. im only 15. i dont plan on LOVING someone for a long time. but i like her alot. and the only reason i do DXM is because i cant find any acid or shrooms. im looking but i am not able to find any. no she has no experience with anything and she wants me to stop because she doesnt wanna go out with a drug addict. which im not. i wont touch stuff u can get addicted to. taht includes ciggarettes. and i would like to smoke once a week but usually i dont have enough money. so i smoke usually once every 2 weeks. if im lucky i can do 3 weeks in a row but i dont have much money. so wen im short ill get some robutessin pills from giant.

 

and fuck no i aint cutting my hair. lol