2 years ago this guy thought that I was asking this girl questions about him at this camp. Everyone found out, which made my crush think of me as immature and weird. So he's basically judging me. Next week me and my family are going down the shore, and we might see his family, and him, if he's there. We haven't seen each other in a year, and I'm really hoping that he won't be the same as he was before. Do you think he let things go? Will he still judge me and be mean/disrespectful? He is 19. I'm 17. And do you think if he knows beforehand that his family's gonna see mine, he won't come just because of me?
I wouldn't worry about it so much. If he's going to be a dick, then let him be a dick. Why would you want to hang around someone who judges you? And who cares if he doesn't show up? There are always other people out there. In my experience, people generally don't grow up until they are in their mid twenties, so my guess is that that he hasn't changed much if at all.
