OK - I asked this question one night at a bar with a decent number of gay men in thei4 40-60s. they all laughed. I have never dated a man. I don't know what it's like. I dated girls when I was young, and I married a woman. But I came out and now I am in this later in life situation. I enjoy sex but I want more. I know I come with baggage - don't we all? but, I would really like to have a real relationship with a man that was more than just sex. I'd like to date - and by date, I mean - having more than one, in a series - over weeks time = when two people get to know one another and determine if this could be a real relationship. Is that possible? It is really something men my age might actually experience?
ABSOLUTELY. Men 'your age' do the same thing that folks of any age do if they are interested in socializing. I have gone to movies, dinner, day trips to the park. I've gone to art exhibits, the beach, and even church events.
Absolutely is a good answer! Personally I am not seeking out a mate however I believe dating makes it much more interesting. Ive dated men and women in my lifetime and a date with a man that I can feel the sparks of attraction with is the best!
I am new and really wanna date a guy sex or course but relationship is my thing someone to maybe even fall in love with.but most guys don't like guys who dress up sissy.i am not out sissy in public yet ok.
Yea I’ve noticed that last part too. Hard to find a top that thinks men wearing women’s undies is hot. I LOVE wearing female undergarments. My boyfriend is turned off by it. I still wear them at home since we haven’t moved in together. I also like wearing them under my male clothing. But if it looks like there’s a chance of us getting naked after a date I don’t wear them. Kinda sucks actually but can’t have everything I guess.
I doubt any relationship provides everything we need... there is always give and take when we want something to work. But, I think it is also important for a person to recognize what's important to your partner. I would not want my partner to change to accommodate me. I want my partner to be himself. I lived too long trying to live in a way that pleased others at a cost to my own wonderful self shining through.
I am in my 60s and I enjoy gay sex a lot however I find it more exciting to go on a date with a man and enjoy his company with clothes on so yes is my answer. We can see about more intimate things later if we hit it off.
Emphatically yes! I enjoy sex with a man very much however going on a date and enjoying him with clothes on can be a great interlude to things more intimate later on. I've really enjoyed my dates. Its healthy and exciting.
Yes, we men date all the time... that is, if we are not only looking for a quick hookup. I always liked having a boyfriend to do things with, like going on a movie date, going out to try a new restaurant, discussing music, going to concerts, playing our instruments (if he plays one) and singing together, hanging out in musical instrument shops like Guitar Center (my favorite), Camping out for a weekend, looking for cool swimming holes (?), going to Nudist beaches and resorts or maybe just a quiet night on his sofa with a bucket of popcorn and a good flick on Netflix. All of this is what I hope to share with the next man (or trans woman) that walks into my life. Any takers?
I would happily go on a date with you just to see what would happen. Why not? Worst that can happen is getting to know someone and knowing they are not for you. Best thing that could happen is a nice kiss or finding someone you could be into.
You've doubtless heard this before, but... Q: What do Lesbians do for a second date? A: Rent a U-HAUL. Q: What do Gays do for a second date? A: What second date?
