I enjoy getting a no strings bj and also enjoy giving one to my friend, but I have no desires to kiss him, cuddle, or anything else other than sucking and playing with his cock. My wife and I are both having bi experiences and remain committed to each other and encourage our life experiences, without consequence. My bi experiences are a result of curiosity and the fact that I have a close gay friend and a wife who encouraged me to try it. My friend understands my feelings and is happy to help me with my curiosity. We are great friends and buddies but there are no"feelings" other than the sexual desires. He says I'm not bi, I just have a cock fetish
interesting story I don't have much to add except for to say that personally I couldn't ever get romantic feelings for a guy - but I wouldn't mind trying out some homo sexual time, so I relate with ya there
I know what you mean, topper. For a long time, I was somewhat attracted to guys, but purely in the "no strings BJ" kind of way. It was much later the first time when I found myself wanting to be intimate in the romantic sense with a guy, and it REALLY took me by surprise, after years of the concept of kissing another guy or whatever seeming very strange. So, maybe those feelings will come eventually when you meet the right person, or maybe not. I could certainly see it going either way. Enjoy those no strings BJs in the meantime haha
I'm actually just the OPPOSITE. In my PERSONAL OPINION, if ANY man TRULY ENJOYS GIVING/RECEIVING BJs with another guy, wether there's kissing, cuddling, etc OR NOT, then he's either BISEXUAL or GAY (and there's ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with that)... But there's NO sugarcoating it, he's DEFINITELY NOT "STRAIGHT". "Straight" men DON'T like or even entertain the idea of having sex with other men at all. When I'm with another MAN, I want the WHOLE experience. I consider myself "truly" bisexual (not "situational"), and I'm NOT into NSA type situations either. I personally have a hard time wrapping my head around the idea of a guy (any man) REALLY being into giving (or swapping) BJs (even swallowing a LOAD) with another guy, and ESPECIALLY giving/receiving ANAL sex with another man, and at the same time claiming to be "straight". I really DON'T UNDERSTAND how ANY man could readily admit to saying he REALLY ENJOYS giving/receiving HEAD and/or giving/receiving ANAL SEX with another man, yet at the same time find it repulsive or a turn off to kiss, make out, cuddle, hug or holding hands with a another guy is something I'll NEVER figure out. I've DEFINITELY noticed this only seems to be an "issue" among guys that claim to be "straight", "situational" or insecure Bisexual guys. I've NEVER heard any GAY man say he couldn't REAL emotional/romantic/intimate sexual relations with another man. I've also noticed that bisexual and Lesbian women NEVER seem to have this "issue" either