divorce

im getting my second one... i am NEVER getting married again!!!
25 and two damn EX husbands... WTF is wrong with me?!?!?!

 

Wrong question. You have to ask wtf is wrong with the men?

Seriously though.. I'm sorry you have to go through that again.

 

No, it always goes back to yourself. If she asks wtf is wrong with the men, then wtf is wrong with her for being with those men?

 

ahh the sanctity of marrige,, is nuthing sacred anymore??

it dont matter about yer sell out piece of paper that throws ya into the babylonian system..

its about commitment,,on both sides..

second divorce?? sounds like ya cant handle life in a partnership to me..

 

gawd...

you two are fuckin awesome.. youve made me smile and i haven't done that all day
ive been crying and my tummy feels so icky...
*ugh*

thanks for being the cutest couple ever

but seriously no more rings on my finger... EVER!

 

Uhh..

Can't we just blame men for everything coz it's more fun that way?

 

how can you make any kinda of judgement on what it sounds like.. you don't know me at all

but yea i feel like maybe im just meant to be alone

 

OR maybe you just need a sexy lady next!

 

Aww I hope everything turns out ok for you and that you'll have lots and lots of happiness in your life. I don't really know what else to say.. Hugs!!

 

You're like Ross from friends. Maybe your problem is the men you select for marriage.

 

thats what i'ma do with my tax return..

 

never said ya was meant to be alone,, just said ya seem to have either bad choices in what ya feel your mind needs in a man,,or a complete lack of commitment to a relationship/// PARTNERSHIP! as that is what a succesfull marrige is..

 

no worries Johanna and thanks

a lady wouldn't be such a bad idea... actually there is this girl who has been pursuing me
but i don't want to rush into another relationship.. with anyone
i need time to deal

 

Well, you can always just "play" with a lady and let her know that you are not ready for anything and are just wanting to play around for awhile!!!!

 

well yes the first one was when i was 17 and i knew i was doing the wrong thing but i didn't realize just how wrong till a year later when i decided being beaten for not sweeping the floor at seven in the morning..
and this time i fell for a counselor's advice that it would bring us together and the ceremony would heal alot of our problems.. huge mistake!!! i still love him.. more then i could ever explain but im tired of feeling the way i do.. so im trying to make good choices... i just hope this is a good one..

he told me at lunch today that i was giving up and that so badly

 

sounds like you are...

 

Jamie, don't give up hope...spend sometime with yourself and your children...you don't need a man...you're strong enough on your own. When the time is right maybe you'll feel differently about marriage...or maybe marriage isn't really your bag...which, there is nothing wrong with that either.

Good luck, sweetie.

 

wow this thread is proof positive that women can be just as predatorial as men when they smell the crisis an take advantage of it..

man ,...

 

HHB, divorce isn't an easy choice for everyone...

saying that, you don't want to be with someone that makes you unhappy. But it still isn't easy.

It's nice to have support from people (even if it IS on the internet) when you've made a big, important decision.