discussing sex openly

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by leaguer, May 10, 2013.

  1. leaguer

    leaguer Guest

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    As the title indicates, me and a friend i met about a week ago have started to talk about sex pretty casually. it's very one-sided though, as she sort of blurts out explicit things every now and then, and i just make a joke in my bewilderment as they usually come at fairly unexpected times. I have no idea if this is a good or bad sign, perhaps meaning she either sees me as a friend she can talk to anything about, or a sex object to an extent. i am interested in her so i would like to date her, although she has had issues confiding in people in the past. thus, i don't know if it's good that she confides in me as she wouldn't even remotely trust me if i came off as at all elusive. Just yesterday, when we spoke on facebook she exclaims "why am i wet" out of the clear blue. then she goes on about masturbation and a plethora of other things. She doesn't exactly flirt with me, but we spend a lot of time together and have very intimate discussions at times (not sexually, but bonding-wise), so i really dont even know what to make of statements like this. it's not the much info, but would anyone even have a guess as of what to make of this?
     
  2. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    She's obsessed with sex?
     
  3. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    How.old.are you? A bit of deja vu hit me then, its how it went for me in high school, usually got too much information.

    You probably dont want to know what it really means
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    How.old.are you? A bit of deja vu hit me then, its how it went for me in high school, usually got too much information.

    You probably dont want to know what it really means
     
  5. leaguer

    leaguer Guest

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    I don't think she's obsessed, it's just off-putting when it comes up every now and then and I don't know what to take from it at all.

    18, and yeah, it pretty much sounds like I've been sort of boxed out of anything serious. Still, a little closure would be nice as this has really been nagging me as of late.
     
  6. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    You could always teasingly raise the stakes and turn the tables.
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i don't know, but why am i wet?
     
  8. FlyingFly

    FlyingFly Dickens

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    was it raining?
     
  9. Uppersarebetter

    Uppersarebetter Banned

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    Girls and guys should just expairament and try new things and get kinky in bed hell kinky ness is the way to go try new things if need any ideas hit me up my email is <redacted by staff>
     
  10. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    Me & my closest friends I have at work, usually discuss sexual things often that one of us may joke about or then discuss it in a non jokingly way.
    It happens often & some ask me questions I may choose to answer or may not. We do chat about sex toys & some of us have admitted to buying them.
     

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