Ok, so I need a little help from my fellow lady friends out there I'm a pretty sexual woman - I'm 22 years old and I was a lesbian until I was 18. I've only been with a few guys - but I am with someone right now I'm very much in love with. We haven't had sex yet though. I get horny A LOT and we have no problem making out or anything, but everytime I get really worked up I get really bad butterflies in my stomach (not like worried butterflies - more just horny, anxious butterflies. lol) and this almost always leads to a very upset stomach and/or some pretty intense digestive issues (feeling somewhat sick, having gas, stomach churning, bowls churning, etc.) . . . obviously farting and feeling like you have to take a shit while you are wanting to get laid is not very ideal. I HATE that it happens. It doesn't happen ALL the time - and I don't really have anything to be nervous about - so I don't know what's going on. But when it does happen its really annoying. I've been REALLY horny these last few days - my guy and I have been flirting like crazy over texting (I'm in a different state right now), but I haven't been able to shake the indigestion! I know I'm not getting laid or anything any time in the next couple days, but I still don't like feeling this way! I can't even eat . . . It also probably doesn't help that I have a lot of external, non sex related stress going on in my life . . . Any suggestions??? (ps. I have tried pepto bismol, antiacids, papaya pills, teas, and marijuana . . . mj and papaya pills seem to help ok, but not long term)
heres a little help from a MALE friend. i was gonna say pepto bismol, but than i saw it at the bottom. maybe try tums. also smoking weed can cure nausea. hope one of those helps :cowboy:
you don't have to be "nervous" for your nerves to be acting up. I think its the stress. Next time you get together, just relax and clear your mind when things start up with you two
Hahahahah I have this SAME issue and omg I thought I was the only one! Thankfully my significant other is VERY understanding about it...eeek!