Did you ever ask your wife what you should do?

If your wife was done with sex for herself, which left you in the need for sexual and mental satisfaction, did she have any suggetions on what you should do? Every once in a while my wife would fuck me with the strapon, but even that was too much for her. She understood that jerking off just didn't cut it and that led to her suggestion to try bi. Once we hit 70, anything goes. She chose nothing and I chose Bi.
Here's the kicker, She doesn't care if I do it with a Friend, but she always wants to know or see about it.
What would be your wifes solution to this situation?

 

My wife, do to health reasons mainly, is non sexual. I asked her about what she feels I should now do. She answer was that I should turn celibate in regards to our marriage vows. (Hmmm, I don't remember that part). She is fine with me tending to my own needs alone. It became a factor in me exploring bisexuality.

 

Did you tell her that jerking off, just doesn't cut it?My friends wife is done too, but suggested we take care of each other and get on with our lives.We took her advice. Its funny how they didn't care about sex anymore, but suddenly became very interested when we started blowing each other.

 

My wife has offered no solutions. I’m sure it is because she doesn’t feel what I feel. She doesn’t have the same everyday desire and urge. I told her to regard it as the same as chocolate, try giving that up permanently unless you get it from me. Sure you’ll be successful for a while, but at some point she will have chocolate. And since it did not come from me then what?
Ultimately it falls on deaf ears. She has no interest in solving this for me.

 

Let her find a dildo or prostate massager in your drawer.Explain that its a matter of Health to maintain a prostate through Sex, or Prostate Stimulation and milking. Maybe she will get the message and help you or just call you a sick old man.
My wife called me a sicko and I showed her just how sick I was. I took a dildo and put it through a hole in a tight pair of Calvin Klein underwear, slipped it on her and went for a ride.She said she didn't believe what I was doing, as she started moving her hips up and down. It felt so good and she could see it in my eyes. It wasn't the evil thing that she expected and she began to help me out, rather than ignore my needs.
A wife who pegs her husband can save his life

 

We're also 70 and sexless. She knows I have sucked cock in the past and is OK if I do it again. She and I have been getting counselling for various problems, sex being one of them. It seems pretty hopeless. We moved into a gated aged lifestyle community. I barely get time to myself to masturbate. I have yet to seriously look around for a friendly horny bi with his own place and a nice fat cock. If I find one, I'm again challenged with the idea of him wanting anal if I don't.

 

Many older wives are done with sex, end of story. They have enough women issues to deal with and sex is the last thing they want to think about. OK, I could understand that. Men on the other hand will be horny till the day they die, many die from sex when youre up their in age. My grandparents, never even made it past their 60s and seemed like fossils to me. Im into my 70's and my wife doesnt care about sex for herself. Women are out of the question, but if I meet up with another like minded horny old guy, she says go for it. Over and done with, no big deal, everybody is happy and satisfied. You don't have to do anything you don't like. Im surprised that at your age, you didn't discover the outrageous feelings and orgasm from anal, yourself.