I don't get it. Women I've known have all been of the opinion that neat little little lips are preferable to guys. As for me, I love a woman with large lips. I love sucking them into my mouth and twirling my tongue around them, tasting the very essence of that woman. I once had a lover who said she was considering getting hers surgically trimmed.I was like Noooooooo. She was so hung up about not wanting me to go down on her until she finally accepted within herself that I genuinely loved the way she was. From that point on... she was great and very comfortable to just relax and enjoy my attentions to her. What is your preference guys/ladies? Is this a case of media sending out the wrong message to women that neat and trim is best?
I am heterosexual but I find lips that are a little more plump to be attractive looking. Probably mid size? I don't find long labia minora sex though, that creeps me out… like having a bunch of extras hanging around my panties.
I like normal to above average in size so that you can take them in your mouth and lick them . But honestly it does not really matter, it is the pleasure given and received that really counts and that is what I take away from an encounter, not a measurement. Good question though
The only thing that really bugs me is really clammy looking ones. And I prefer some hair to be near it.
Only reason I was asking is because I know a couple of women who have had hang-ups despite being what I think is perfectly normal. Somehow the word out there is that trim is the way guys like it... and I've only ever known one guy who says he likes it all neat and trim (not that it has been a topic for much discussion). So thought I would get a wider opinion on it. Where do women get fed the idea that a designer vagina is a good thing? I certainly don't think it is.
I think most people think they should look some other way - most are harder on themselves than on others
My fiancé likes it neat and trim. We were talking about vaginas one day recently actually…. He said he doesn't like "blown out" vaginas. So I asked him to describe it further and he said "like a wilted tiger lily". He knows what these look like because I get flowers often and those are my favorite. I then asked him to show me a picture of one online, and the only way to describe it is long hanging inner and outer lips or a butterfly.
Personally I think a "neat" compact VJ is nice looking. Dunno if it's me or just a general consensus but when i see woman with dumbo ears flopping around down there I instantly think messy loose canon. But really all this comes from seeing porn stars and not real life experiences as I've been married for so long and before that most of my GF's were hairy and I didn't go down there with flashlights and measuring tapes. My wife (who's one of the few woman I've been with who actually trims her VJ) is pretty neat and tidy down there Trim & neat to me seem like "fresh" and "unused." Woman with a lot of extra skin down there who look like they got run over by a Mac Truck a few times just looks unattractive to me, IMHO...
This is a bad poll, because it doesn't have a "don't care" answer. Also, I think the notion of "normal" is bogus when it comes to female parts. What you call "normal" is just something in-between the other choices. Every woman is different and vive la différence.
But you know, neat and trim doesn't mean "fresh" and "unused" right? Because mine is neat and trim but my man likes to beat it up regularly. It just stays looking this way because 1) its genetic I suppose and 2) I don't mutilate it. But rest assured, mine is used. lol On another note.. speaking with a guy friend (who used to get laid A LOT when he was in a really popular punk band).. he once told me that plump vulva looks "inviting".
Wait. How exactly did OP decide that inner labia hanging out is normal? I guess I'd be in the "neat and tidy" category, but using the word "normal" for a vagina is a tad ignorant. There is no normal. They're all different.
I don't have a preference. It's whatever. Clean. Not currently bleeding. Not attached to a jackass. Not attached to a woman more than 50 pounds +/- overweight. Size of lips/shape of vulva does notnmatter to me nearly as much as those things.
cuz when I'm looking a porn, I'm like Oooooo that's perfect and Ooooooo that's perfect and Ooooooo that's perfect and Ooooooo that's perfect and Oooooo that's perfect.......... well you get the idea. Neat and tidy normal or large open beautiful flower. With hair or without I seem to think they are perfect :love:
I don't really have a strong preference, I've had them all and the woman attached to it is more important at the end of the day. My only observations are that.. and this is not scientific just based on my experiences - the 'pretty pussies' that are all symmetrical and look like a clam tend to be more emotional and neurotic, and less understanding and supportive of stupid male/testosterone moments. the 'beef curtains' are the more down chicks that will stand by you, drink you under the table, fuck the shit out of you, and won't take shit but understand men. The biggest problem with it is you can't slide in with a dry dick, you either need sloppy head or to spit on it because it hangs up on the lips going in at first. That and with hard long fucking they tear easier, then you don't get laid the next day because they are sore.