Lately if i masturbate and come afterwords usually a couple hours after, I am irratable a little but mosty feel like things aren't worth it, such as looking at my work, vehicle etc. This feeling is usually accompaneed by anger and depression. Anyone have a clue why? I feel like I can do anything when my sexual energies are with me but when there gone I feel literally hopeless, worthless, unenergetic, depressed, angry etc.
Your body is probably experiencing the high, and then dropping you low if your masturbating too often. I highly recommend eating a healthier diet (organic apples if you can, almonds, whole wheat bread, vegetables, chicken, olive oil etc.) to replenish the nutrients and all that is depleted so your body can regain a balance. Take a two day break from masturbating. My guess is you are overworking the pleasure center of your brain through this one act, and your brain has mentally raised the bar on what to expect, and the dopamine hit you get is lessened.
when something so powerfull leaves your body it is shockingly nice and pleasant but after an hour the adrenaline washes away and your left with a love that left you and you are alone. The warmth of a close friend left you out of your penis and alas you wait to rebuild the relationship you once had to your sexual energy.
Hi adforester, do you not have a girlfriend at the moment (?) & is that what makes you feel depressed after masturbating - wishing you had a girl for a partner / sex?
i guess that could be it, i just broke up with a girlfriend of 5 years. Sexual energy feels so good as did she but I cant stand things leaving me.
You know, my case is somewhat different than yours, but I've been going through some situation myself that has something to do with depression. And yes, it's also girl related. For me, I get really uneasy when I near an orgasm, so I can't help but stop before I actually climax. It's something like a fear of what might await me after the orgasm, I guess. So, I haven't orgasmed in a month or so. I still masturbate when I get the urge, but I just don't finish. Sometimes it's frustrating, but I'm just being patient about it. If my situation with this girl improves, I'm sure I'll be able to climax normally again. So I say you be patient, too. You don't have to abstain from orgasming, well, not like I'm doing it on purpose myself, LOL. xD Anyway, just take your time to mourn over the breakup. Some people may tell you not to let it bother you too much, but these "mourning periods" are actually important in properly getting over negative situations such as breakups. Maybe what you've been experiencing could even come from the emptiness you feel because the one you loved is no longer there to give you that intense and special pleasure. Maybe, if subconsciously, your brain is telling you that an orgasm achieved by your hand is super lame compared to the beautiful thing your ex used to treat you to. Something to think about... All the best man!
