demanding girlfriend

I had always thought that my gf and i had a pretty good sex life, until she now only demands penetration sex. The trouble is i dont last that long and she is getting furious with my performance!
I always used to give her oral before and she used to say she loved it and never failed to reach orgasm. I would always make sure she was satisfied first.
She now tells me she no longer wants this anymore and says she wants good long penetration. She has demanded I masturbate more to learn how to control myself cos she says that at my age i should be able to give her what she needs!
This is just making things worse because im now cumming even quicker. She laughs in disgust and says that i am pathetic when it comes to sex.
I cant understand why we cant just be as we were cos she used to love her orgasms through oral. Now she has even said that i either stop cumming so soon or else I can go and masturbate in future.
Just how long does she want me to bang away for cos i have no chance of even lasting 10 mins at present! Is she out of order or am i as she puts it "pathetic"

 

You are not pathetic. Get a new girlfriend, she sounds fucking awful!

 

cum in her eye and then dump her. sounds like a bitch.

 

Fuckin pound the shit out of her like she deserves

 

Cheers katie, good to hear from another womans opinion (from England aswell) !!
Yeah the more I think about it is doin my head in. Never had issues with any other girlfriends. What u say makes sense if it carries on. Anyway dont mean to be a boring git, as im normally ok

 

Common bro get your confidence up!

 

Haha, too Fuckin right bruny! Thing is i cant cos i fucked off out early and been ignoring her calls. Dont really know why I have been letting her treat me like a knobhead tbh cos im far from it! Used to have your attitude mate and would of just told her to fuck off!
Need to be more like before I got with her. Sound advice fella

 

Look, if she wants a good pounding then she wants a good pounding. Oral sex may be fine for a while but it's clearly not enough.

Now you have to make a choice if you want to put up with her being a bitch. Calling you pathetic is reason enough to end this relationship.

If you can't walk away tell her she'll get pounded when she stops insulting you.

 

True man, listen i didn't mean to join hear like I'm some sort of attention seeking prick but most of u r spot on. I've obviously gone a bit toooo soft lately need to get my head out the Fuckin clouds and go back to some of my old ways!! Soz for sounding like a prick. Im no bloody wimp or anything but now i cant believe I put my problems on here. If I hadn't put up with it in the beginning then u guys and gals wouldn't of had to read the shit. Cheers to u all tho

 

oh my god what a bitch. i wish you a nice gf in the future, you don't deserve to be treated like that.

 

Cheers pipgirl.x

 

Sounds to me like she is trying to piss you off so you will fuck her harder. Sometimes a little angry sex can be good.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

Don't subject yourself to this any longer. If I were mean, and I'm not, I'd wear a condom, smothered in icy hot and paprika and then pound the shit out of her, and then ask if she still has any complaints about your prowess. (seriously, don't do that).

Having said that, control can be achieved with practice - it's more mental than you think, but I'll warn you that certain effective mental exercises with regard to "staying power" can lead you to dark places.

Your gf isn't being "demanding", she's getting of on being "abusive" and emasculating you - especially if she used those very words that you claim.

 

Ditch the bitch

 

Good advice there, Rev. Definitely worth a try.

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Her delivery is bitchy but you may want to practice some edging with her until you develope the ability to pound her pink hole into oblivion...then dump her.

 

I would say hit it like normal and if you nut then wait 10 mins and "entertain" her during those 1o mins. You can eat her, finger her, she can blow you, kiss, etc. then hit it again. The second time around you should last longer. If this doesn't work then fuck it and dump her.

Don't let people pressure you into things like that because its makes the situation worse. You worry about being in compliance... it's not worth it man. Find a girl that is right for you. There is WAY MORE OUT THERE!!!

 

my girlfriend will not even butter my arse

 

yeah she doesnt have to be so mean about it, but if you cant last more than 10 minutes.....thats kinda pathetic, yeah

 

tell her you've found another gf. really piss her off