http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/real_life/6695363/Women-who-pay-male-escorts-for-sex.html This article says that the number of available and working gigolos has tripled since 2010. More women are hiring male escorts. Further, this article interviewed women who hired male escorts to find out they feel that trolling for one-night-stands in bars is too sleazy. They don't have the time to spare for a date. And they find that most men in their age group are bad in bed; they are after younger men. Plus the advantage having escort services is that you don't have to worry about clingyness, drama, or attachment issues which are common side effects of relationships and friends-with-bennefits
I don't know about gigolos, but I always loved this song.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIRIsKG95lg
I for one believe that the chase can be just as entertaining as the catch. I just can't see myself paying for sex ever. Even at the most kinkiest thing I'd like to try, I bet I could find someone to explore that with for free tbh. I think though it's probably not a bad way for a female to go as long as the business is legit. It appears safer IMO.
i guess most of those justifications make sense, but it does seem strange to say that women are hiring prostitutes to avoid sleaziness.
On a more serious yet more cynical note I never believed the garbage that women need an emotional connection. They just say stuff like that so they dont end up sounding as desperate as the guys....in regards to a certain 5% of them anyway A decade or so after things like viagra become mainstream, this starts to happen......
The OP is becoming notorious for sharing news links and accompany a conclusion or conviction with it that is a tad off.
An emotional connection does make me feel less cheap and used if the sex turns out to be terrible. Personally, I like to feel like we are two consenting adults engaging in mutual pleasure (and mutual risk), not that he is just using me as a cum dumpster and then laughing at me with his friends. Having feelings and shit makes us more comfortable, feel less pressure, feel less like we're being used and more like there's time for it to be better next time (because just statistically, every lay isn't going to be fireworks... sometimes people have an off-day). However, if it turns out awesome, then cool, we're good, go home. Call me or not, lol... So assuming this service was risk-free (discreet, safe, good, clean fun), I would see no issue with utilizing it. I can see the draw of having someone cater to what you want in a date and in bed in this world of "dtf?" and "netflix and chill" where romance is basically dead.