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Definitely curious, but turned off

Discussion in 'Genitalia' started by JS420, May 19, 2024.

  1. JS420

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    I am seriously curious and definitely have a desire to stroke and suck another man's penis. I know how good my erect penis feels in my hand and I know how good an erect penis feels in my mouth (I could suck my own penis when I was much younger). The problem being that I am severely turned off and somewhat sexually disgusted by male bodies. Does anyone else have or had this issue, and if so how did you deal with it?
    I figure the only way that I can get around it is to find a pretty trans woman that will let me suck her penis. Any thoughts??
     
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  2. Bazz888

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    Yeh, I've seen a few cocks I'd be quite happy to break my cock-sucking virginity with but then, when I see a hairy male body attached to it, or a huge stomach, I get turned off in an instant.
    My thoughts are:
    1. Let him remain mostly clothed with that part of his body hair-free
    2. Have a 3sum and the woman 69 him so his body is hidden from me and we can both suck him
    3. find an attractive looking ladyboy.
     
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  3. KDaddy23

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    One of the "problems" that comes with having sex is being focused on what the other person looks like and not being able to focus on the sexual act to be performed. Really hairy guys just freak me out... but I can have sex with them because I focus on what I'm supposed to be doing and ignoring all that body hair. I'm not trying to have sex with "Ken" because if that was the case, I wouldn't have gotten any dick to begin with. Not everyone can set aside what they see but if you can, that works. Or like I ask guys, "What, are you going marry him? Plan on having his babies?"
     
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  4. Bazz888

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    I can understand that.
    However, afterwards, and as a legacy, I'd like to think Mmmm I sucked his dick and I enjoyed it and I would like to do it again.
    I don't want to think that I sucked his dick but yeuch, he was a hairy fat bloke and I don't want to do it again, or worse, to feel repulsed.
     
  5. KDaddy23

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    If I had fun sucking his dick, then that trumps and revulsion I might feel about the rest of him. I've told myself that I'm not trying to marry the guy and I'm not even worried about "our children" coming out all hairy or any other physical thing that might be perceived as a turn off, oh, like his dick not being cut. I wouldn't suck one and didn't until I was 50 and now, I'll suck the soul right out of a guy whose dick isn't cut - and ignoring the revulsion I still feel about how ugly they are. Oh, that's right - if it's in my mouth, I can't see it, can I? So what if he needs to hit the gym or goes on a diet? Does his dick work the way its supposed to? Healthy enough to be sucked? Legally old enough? Not my idea of an asshole? You pass this and I'll be sucking your dick and no matter what you look like... because it's about sucking cock and not a beauty contest...
     
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  6. Bazz888

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    Well, whilst, for me, it is only about the cock, I would still prefer he be slim or quite slim and not too hairy. I wouldn't be thinking along the lines you've described KDaddy.
    I suppose I'd like his body to be aesthetically pleasing, at least, to some degree. Smooth would be good ;) I'd like to lick his balls too and not get hair in my mouth.
     
  7. Longzi

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    I feel the same way, the male body is not attractive to me, but a feminine looking male with a hard cock turns me on.
     
  8. JS420

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    I prefer number 3
     
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    Look up "glory hole" or "glory hole" to get you started. It's a hole in a board or sheet where the guy presses his dick and often balls through, and that's all you see.

    Search for an adult bookstore near you, or some guys put ads up and make one in their basements with wood, or a sheet with a hole.

    Watch some videos online searching for the key word to get you into the mood. Some of the videos are very hot whether it's a man or a woman doing the sucking or fucking.
     
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  10. JS420

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    Yes, I know what a glory hole is, but I am not about to go out and let just anyone cum in my mouth. I have never been overly promiscuous and would prefer if I knew where the cock I was sucking has been!!
     
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    There are definitely places to avoid. Overly busy places invite the wrong type of crowd. The one I went to was out in the middle of nowhere and largely ruled out that type of crowd. I'm pretty sure the owner only had the shop so he could get his cock sucked whenever he wanted. It was on my bucket list. Pretty damned exciting and I sucked on some amazing cocks. Too much of a good thing. I quit before I got carried away which for me is real easy when cock is involved.
     
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    I started out my bisexual journey the same way. However over time and several men partners my attraction has changed. It used to be I just wanted to suck his cock and have him suck mine. It wasn’t too long I wondered what it would be like to have a guys cock inside me. Well I found that I liked that too. Now I’ll make out with him suck his cock, enjoy his naked body on mine.
     
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    You can bring some flavored condoms made for giving oral sex with you to an adult bookstore glory hole? While some guys would reject or walk away from a condom for oral, I suspect most would be just fine getting a covered blow job? Based on your concerns of risk and being repulsed by the rest of the male body, this is the solution for you to try out your curiosity and desires.
    I do occasionally see ads on sites for guys insisting on only giving condom covered blowjobs. But rarely combined with DIY glory holes? Try posting your own ad asking for what you want. Once you touch, & suck your first hard cock, you'll find out all the worries you had in your mind were way overblown! And you'll have far less issues with the male body after that, too!
    If giving and receiving blowjobs was really risky, doctors & hospitals would be overwhelmed 24/7 like a neverending tsunami tidal wave!
     
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    I generally don't care what the guy looks like. I'm not looking to marry him. I justvwant sex. I'm just interested in what's dangling between his thighs and getting it in my mouth and ass. If he starts sucking on my nipples and fingering my ass, I can easily overcome much of any unappealing attributes he may have. I just concentrate on getting him to cum and feel good.
     
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  15. thesantos29

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    This is pretty common. I have turned guys down once I see a face Pic. I have learned how stupid I was when I was the one getting turned down.

    I was offering BJ's and a guy told me that he wasn't attracted to me. My thought was "What does it matter what I look like, my mouth is on your cock."

    Don't worry about the guy, just enjoy the cock.
     
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  16. straightma1e

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    Men's bodies just don't do it for me either. I can't get aroused at the sight. I enjoy a nice looking cock either in a flaccid state or erect. Being involved in athletics I have seen a lot of cocks in my time. Some sparked interest but when seeing what it is owned by I recede and lose the spark.
     
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    I've only sucked one to completion and I had no interest at all in his body, although I did strip his pants and shorts off and he unbuttoned his shirt as I got going. All of that was OK. But I had no interest in the man whose penis I was sucking. I touched his stomach, cock, balls and asshole and obviously took his shaft and balls in my mouth. No romantic stuff. Just getting him hard and getting him off. I would enjoy a few in a glory hole. It's just a cock there, nothing else.
     
  18. JS420

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    Growing up in the era of open school locker rooms, open locker rooms at public pools and open locker rooms at the YMCA I got to see a lot of cocks and naked male bodies. Granted back then I wasn't into fixating on cocks, but I did get to see a lot of naked men walking around with varying physiques. Seeing all these different cocks and bodies did nothing for me sexually. If I can just look at a cock without seeing the rest of the body that it's attached to then I can actually enjoy looking at it.
    No, I am not looking for a relationship (unless it was the right cock and right person), but I still have to be able to get aroused and enjoy what I am doing. Seeing a beautiful cock attached to a disgusting body would immediately turn me off and that would end it right there!!!
     
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    Except for one set of circumstances, I usually try to make some kind of connection either online or in person. If there is one, then hygiene and general appearance is next. The majority of the time it leads to a satisfied conclusion. The body shape doesn't factor in....I have sucked very heavy guys to ones who are quite thin with dick sizes from around 4" to 9"....and enjoyed them all.
     
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  20. JmSwt

    JmSwt I love my penis!

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    I can’t really give any advice as I’m very gay and love everything about the male body. What I will say is that if you’re truly interested in trying this then just try it and see what happens! It’s not really the guy you’re interested in, you just want to try giving his penis some love and attention. If you like the penis then you’re going to really enjoy yourself regardless of what the rest of the body looks like…
     
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