Deep Orgasms and Clitoral Orgasms

I'm pretty open about having a small dick. So I was talking to my gf about types of orgasms. She said a small dick is very good at giving clitoral orgasms if the man took his time to try a little. Also, oral and fingers are good at giving clitoral orgasms.

She said only average or bigger dicks could give the deep orgasms. She said there is a spot that's deep in women's pussy about 5 inches inside and when a man is able to touch it and rub it correctly, after a little time, a lot of women...herself included begin to get deep powerful orgasms. She says it doesn't compare to the clitoral orgasms...like it's in a different ballpark or something. She said it causes her pussy to contract and squeeze automatically...like a spasm but it feels really good.

Ladies...is she just fucking with me?

 

Actually, my gf is about 5' tall and less than 100 pounds. She's far from fat. I think she's sexy as hell. imp:

 

I'm not a girl but I've heard of this too, if you are referring to this sensitive spot near the back frontal wall of the vagina near the base of the cervix.

I've concluded that it does exist, but not all girls have it, and whether it's good to stimulate that area or not or if it'll even respond depends on the arousal of the woman and just her general preferences. It should also be said that cervical stimulation also is a turn off for some women.

I think very very few woman like their cervix bashed, which is the opposite of what is shown in a lot of mainstream porn.

 

She's not lying. Even the build up to a orgasm completely shits on a clitoral orgasm for me. Then again I never thought clitoral orgasms were THAT great before I even had sex.

 

i don't see why a small dick would be "very good" at giving clitoral orgasms. it may be effective, but she makes it sound like a small dick would be better for it, and i don't see why that would be the case.

 

Perhaps she was implying that smaller dicks were better for clitoral orgasms because the pubis of the man would grind easier on the woman's clitoral area with more precision than someone average or larger than average (6-8+ inches)

 

Just get a guy to use his penis to rub the clit with instead of his fingers - still makes the clit enjoy it & the guy & you

 

Geez, n "O" is an "O" is an "O"

Just lie back and enjoy them instead of trying to categorise everything.

 

I'm sorry, but she doesn't know what she's talking about. Or, if she does, then she's just saying all that to make you feel less of a man. I mean, she's clearly saying that you are inadequate to give her this pleasure that is so amazing, but guess what; You CAN. She's talking about the G-spot, and that is NOT 5 inches inside the vagina. It's ONE to THREE inches in(Google if you need confirmation). You're a little over 4 inches erect, which is actually within the average bracket believe it or not, and you CAN stimulate her G-spot.

And I don't even understand this bullshit about small penises being good for "clitoral" orgasms. What, because she can bottom out without hurting herself? In which case it's not really your PENIS that's stimulating her clit, it's your pelvic mound that she's rubbing her clit against. She must be totally clueless about the sexual anatomy aspect, or she's having fun putting you down based on your penis size. If it's the latter, then she's pretty fucked up in my opinion. Do NOT let her, or any other women like her, or porn(obviously) brainwash you into thinking your penis is too small. Because it ISN'T.

Oh, and the thing about the "deep orgasm" she's talking about where her vagina "contracts and squeezes automatically"... It doesn't matter if it's clitoral, or G-spot induced, an orgasm involves involuntary vaginal contraction. Just a thought...

 

Just to be fair though, I have met one woman whose entire frontal vaginal wall was just more sensitive any other woman I'd ever met before.

So it's possible that she's telling the truth about what she feels. But yeah what she is saying to him could be a veiled insult.

 

Yeah, but if the OP's girlfriend was like the lady you met, then that would mean she wouldn't necessarily need a big penis to achieve desirable orgasms, anyway. I mean, if her ENTIRE vaginal wall was very sensitive, then that would mean from the entrance all the way up to the very end of the vaginal canal. In which case, a small penis would be just as adequate to pleasure her as a big one as long as the guy knows how to use his equipment well.

I've gotten the impression from reading the OP's various other posts/threads that his girlfriend actually likes big dicks, and that she repeatedly tells him his equipment is small, or too small to do certain tasks albeit her claims being false and inaccurate. I mean, she told him he was TOO small to take a girl's virginity. She told him he was TOO small to hit her G-spot. She also wants him to put on a penis extension, and why would one need to EXTEND one's penis? Because of the idea that the penis belonging to one is TOO small. This girl, along with a number of other women the OP has encountered so far, has planted that idea so deeply to the point where now he can't even sign up to an online community without calling himself "asmallonehere".

So, my guess is either that she is a mean ass bitch who actually likes big dicks but keeps her "not so big" boyfriend around for the sake of her own sick and twisted amusement...OR, the OP himself actually likes being treated like he is inadequate as a man. But I'm only speaking based on what I could gather so far from his posts. The OP is totally welcome to reply with a differing opinion to counter my hypothesis if he wishes, and I shall stand corrected if/when called for.

 

On that we agree about the OP and his girlfriend.

In my case though, the girl I knew of didn't need big dicks to get the O, but she did say that there are different types of O's for women, and although she was a real easy comer, she said with longer dicks each "stroke" lasts longer and that is the preference that some women like VS others, and then there's the sensation of being stretched with bigger dicks, which is also preference and helps with "fantasy" during intercourse for women.

So perhaps that is a similar situation the OP's girlfriend means when she said or implied she likes bigger dicks? But yeah she's being mean about it, but at least she's upfront...the next move is the OP's.

 

depends on the girl, imma dude with 7 incher , some girls love when i hit the back some girls says it hurts

 

They are different. You could probably do that with your fingers if you wanted to.

 

The deep orgasms you're talking about are very real! They're called uterine orgasms because the guy's penis, which has to be pretty big, actually massages and stimulates the womb during sex. My hubby gives me these sometimes and they're absolutely amazing!! It takes a little work to get the positioning just right but it's worth it. The womb is a sex organ and stimulating it gives a woman intense pleasure. Guys, if your penis is big enough you need to be giving your wives and gfs uterine orgasms. There's just nothing I can do to repay my hubby when he gives me one!