Decisions - important ones

Right now I have 2 important decisions to make and I'm just wracking my brain, giving it tons of thought, lots of headspace and I'm still in mental perma circles.

How can one follow through on the decision? Is it right? Can it be undone?

I'm losing it.

 

Write a list of the pros and cons.
Put it away for 24 hours or longer.
Come back with a fresh mind, read it again and decide.
Once the decision is made, forget there was ever an alternative.

 

i only have one important decision to make and i'm losing it. good luck.

 

Take a shot of whiskey before writing the list. It will take the stress and pressure out of writing it.

 

flip a coin and blame god if you make the wrong choice...

 

Hey I know how you feel
Im trying to make the decision to quit this university or not after the semester. I want to, but i dont know what i would do when i go back home... get a job? attend a community college? psh i dunno

 

Put your troubles in each fist, place them behind your back, and I'll pick one.

 

whats with people and lists?

just do it warmie! JUST DO IT.

 

I'd recommend allowing me to make the decisions for you

 

i'd go with the pro con list, i made my husband do that when he was trying to make a tough decision.

 

choose whichever option is harder, those are usually the more rewarding ones.

 

Where is your nose pointing?

I'm rooting for ya-

 

my nose points about fifteen degrees to the right......

 

I'm a lister maker, so I'd go with the pros and cons list.

Good luck whatever it is you decide on whatever it is you're deciding.

 

Lists are useful preliminaries; but in the end, only the courage of the nose does it for you

 

Make the decision as if somebody not in your shoes is making it. This removes your emotion from the equation.

 

I don't do lists but do journal writings. Smoke a fattie....lean back and let go of my thoughts.

Generally it becomes clear to me by the end of that session.

 

I always make the wrong decision

Its cause I don't think.

 

witch one seems more important

and whould they lead into each other if you do one to the other?

 

To make the best decisions , I:-
meditate/breathing
exercise hard , then chill with music.
or take a walk in the sun and fresh air
getting pissed *can* be good.
talk to positive people , avoiding negative ones.
sleep on it for a day , 2 , whatever.
Oh and lists are vital...

often I try and do a trial of what I choose.
Be true to *yourself*.
Good luck!