Deal breaker?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by PhantomHeist, Apr 24, 2019.

  1. PhantomHeist

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    I'll try to summarize...

    A guy I've known my whole life but never Really knew. Started talking a couple weeks ago to strike up a FWB situation. It's a little odd bc we are both adults but can't really but we aren't telling people bc it's strictly FWB and no strings attached. Before this, it's been 2 years since I've been sexually active.

    We finally hooked up, in a shed with no power. He couldn't keep it up and when it was hard, my vagina kept squeezing him out.

    Next time I was in his room giving him head and idk if he got to finish or not bc right when he was about to cum, I vomited so hard. I'm pretty sure he was pissed. That was 2 days ago.

    My question is, would the vomit scenario be THE deal breaker? We discussed before everything that I needed to learn these things...but is it salvageable?
     
  2. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    doesn't matter about the question...its a win win either way....if he is understanding and y'all keep going thats good....and if he isnt understanding and now takes a pass?...then you dodged a bullet...also a win


    ftr....happenned with my wife when we were teenagers....I still married her......the deal-breaker was her blowing other dudes lol
     
  3. Deejay88

    Deejay88 Visitor

    I say no it not always stars the first time it take time and it will get better
     
  4. PhantomHeist

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    Well, there's no feelings attached. We both feel the same about those kind of responsibilities. My problem is that I'm not in a position to meet people and I'm not okay with trying to find people. So, for me, it's him or nothing. He's older than me, more attractive than me, and is socially mobile, so I'm just an option. Again, I'm ok with that.

    I offered to pay for a room so we could have a good nasty naked time, and he hasn't texted back yet. Seriously, lol, like 2 hours ago. I'm insecure, bc who doesn't need spontaneous dick at 30 yrs old?? If he's grossed out I'd rather just be told that I turn him off, rather than be ignored. But he has other priorities and obligations. When it comes to a friendly fuck, I'm ok. When it comes to my insecurities I feel like I'm lame and a failure.
     
  5. Deejay88

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    Your fine don’t worry about it we men don’t get turned off easily just don’t over think it trust me he will call u maybe not today but he has not forgot u for sure
     
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