daughter marrying a girl

How would you react if your daughter married a girl?

 

well, I don't have a daughter, so this is purely theoretical.

Mostly I'd be happy that she found someone she wanted to spend teh rest of her life with. Secondly I'd be worried about the cost of the wedding, since those things can be fahreakin expensive. Thirdly, I'd be worried about whether this girl was really good for her/made her happy, what with divorce rates and all. Lastly I'd be worried about explaining it to conservative members of the families.

 

If I had a daughter, and she married a girl I would be very proud of her because that is a very brave thing to do in this world. I would be proud that she wouldn't be caring what anyone thinks and following her heart instead of worrying about how society would look at her. Love is a beautiful thing, gender has nothing to do with it.

 

alsopurely theoretical since have no daughter
but i'd be pretty damn happy about it 1st of all
2nd i'd be glad shewasnt marrying an abusive drunk wifebeatter type
3rd i'd really be looking forward to explaining it to conservative members of the family

on a side note.. my sis's ex husbands dad is a cross dresser..and even the most conservative in my family seemed to have no issues with that so i doubt they'd be too upset as long as shes truly happy

 

As long as she'd be happy I'd be happy.

 

It honestly wouldnt bother me...If the lady loved her and would treat her well...I would rather my daughter be with the lady than a guy that might not be as good to her. Ive had girlfriends treat me better than my 1st husband.

 

they would have to let me plan the wedding, which would involue me being head brides maid and both of them wearing dresses, none of this both wearing suits business- apart from all that no problems at all.
hell if i had a son marrying another man, I would insist they both wear dresses before I give my blessings
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Ha ha, ya know Im just fucking with ya ( dammit it should say screaming beagle) sorry, but whats up with this part of your reply.....2nd i'd be glad shewasnt marrying an abusive drunk wifebeatter type


Why so quick to jump on the drunk wifebeater wagon? I myself dont know any of these types nor do I drink or beat females.

And I guess if a female likes pussy as much as dudes do its all good. Cant fault them for that.

 

Would be preferable to some of the gobshites my eldest daughter has been with.

 

shaboobalaboopy. it's her life, she can do what she wants to

 

you know, i've known quite a few women who were abusive drunk wifebeater types. that's not a purely male problem.

it would all be the same fears and worries if my daughter was marrying a man, with the additional worry that some asshole bastards will abuse them for their choice to marry, and should they choose to have children, i'd worry about how people would treat them, as well. but in my family, it wouldn't be a problem. we're very free-spirited sorts, despite the political leanings.

 

ok, i guess i need to clarify..it was almost 5 am when iposted that
i in no way meant to imply that all men are wifebeatting violent drunks..or that no women are..i just meant id rather see her marry a caring woman then end up with a nyone abusive

 

I went to a female to female wedding recently. It was a beautiful wedding.

The couple is very happy, & well adjusted. They take good care of each other.
They are bringing the property value up in their neighborhood..They bought a rundown house and fixed it up real nice.
They help out other family members when they can.
They work, & pay taxes like most of the rest of us.

*shrug* Don't see any problems with them, anyways.

 

As long as my daughter is happy with her spouse, I'm happy. (Same goes if my son marries a dude)

 

ever notice how we as a society feel the need to justify marginalized people? it should be enough that they're just a married couple. most married couples have no need to be justified to be accepted, they just ARE. instead of "sara and jane got married yesterday, they bought a house on such and such street. they're fixing it up," we have to say MORE, like you did there, because you just KNOW some asshole is going to be going on and on about how the happy couple are a detriment to the fabric of society. sheesh. i wish people didn't have to justify their existances so much, or that the people who loved them didn't have to go on the offense for them. it's so tedius and unfair.

i'm done with my rambling now.

 

Well, kc, my point is that they really are a good couple that contributes to society.
In this case, probably a better couple than many. (as in, it does happen)

As long as the daughter is happy, & it's a healthy relationship..I fail to see the problem.

 

:$ Yeah, I hear ya. Fuckin' shame, isn't it?

 

yup. it's an irksome situation. so mindless.

 

i'd be happy for her. but the first thought that would come to mind would be how i was going to get some grandkids...

 

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