Dating Outside Of Your Race...Could You???

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Could You Date Someone Outside of your Race??

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  1. BrownTripleQQ

    BrownTripleQQ Member

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    Would you date outside of your race? Do you have any concenrs or hang-ups with dating a man or woman that is not the same race as you???
     
  2. lacuna

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    Who would?

    I actually find it boring going out with someone of the same race/culture. Most of the things I've learned about other cultures has come from the people I've gone out with.

    Besides - children from mixed race relationships are always so much cuter.
     
  3. loveturtle

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    I'm a white guy, and I might be considered sexist in that I only want to date women, not men. It's just the way I was raised, and the way I feel comfortable. Also, I believe that I and even the greatest humans are a little racist, even though our racism might be minimal and possibly subconscious. However, there are MANY women of all races to whom I'm attracted, and whom I would love to date and/or make love to and/or marry. My appreciation of women and of wonderful, special persons is not limited to my own race.
     
  4. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    I love asian girls :D
     
  5. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    I would PREFER someone of Native American background to be with...but I won't rule out other races. Thats just not cool. French girls are incredibly sexy :& I love their accent.
     
  6. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    i would and i have... not a big deal to me. my first several bfs were of a different race than my own
     
  7. Syntax

    Syntax Senior Member

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    Why the hell would anyone have a problem with dating outside of a race in this day and age? Some rare individuals may not wish to -marry- outside of a race, but even that's not too common these days. If you like a person, just go for it. Who cares what race?
     
  8. SilverClover14

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    It doesn't matter to me either way. I find men of all races sexy. Although I am partial to redheads, which is kind of Caucasian-centric, but it's not a requirement.
     
  9. barefoot hippie

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    damn i love aboriginals :D
    im only one in the mind tho

    why should it matter what colour a persons skin is?
    if theres a connection than who cares
     
  10. urbangal

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    Dating outside one's race is HARDLY a big deal save to the people who make a big deal out of it (and we know whom they be-sometimes they live with us)
    Anyway, I've have exclusively dated outside my race since I began dating. This is do mostly because I like different people so dating wasn't a big deal. Others have been uncomfortable, not I as its how I am.

    Now do I have preferences? Sure, yet love is love and I'm in to lovin! :D
     
  11. dizzytizzy

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    Variety is the spice of life!
     
  12. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    Yah I've dated outside my race, outside my religion too...not a big deal at all, I don't think. If you feel a connection with someone, and they're not some kind of axe murderer, go for it. Though for some reason, I've dated more Catholic guys than any other religious types...weird, cos my family isn't Catholic lol we're not really anything.
     
  13. WayfaringStranger

    WayfaringStranger Corporate Slave #34

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    my last girlfriend was black, and super hot! she was real nice too. now ive met the woman of my dreams i do believe, and she is half mexican. she is why i no longer flirt outrageously with every woman on here.
     
  14. SilverClover14

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    I've always dated within my race, but that's only because the opportunity has never presented itself otherwise.

    Latin guys are the most fun to flirt with though, especially when the don't know that I speak Spanish. I want to marry a South American guy...
     
  15. Lonely Goatherd

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    I'm an Eastern European Jew... I'm not sure if I've ever actually met a girl who was the same race as me.

    I asked a Chinese girl out in college, but she wasn't into it... you can follow my current dilemma in L&S.
     
  16. lucyinthesky

    lucyinthesky Tie Dyed Soul

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    are you new?? racism still exists in this world, everywhere you go. "This day in age" has just as much racism as ever. My sister is white and had children with her ex who is black, and gets wicked coments and looks all the time when she's with her kids. My other neice has gotten harassed in school for being black- and i live on the border of Detroit, in a multi-cultural city.

    I don't care about it at all. But don't be blind to what racism does exist in the world, just because you're not a racist.
     
  17. WayfaringStranger

    WayfaringStranger Corporate Slave #34

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    well im in the south . . .. and im american . . . yup im a guy . . . . but you cant have me!
     
  18. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    Yeah, we're quite the sexy bunch.:)
     
  19. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    Heehee, sure can be. 'round here, a lot of the Native Americans have the most amazing facial bone structures ever... cheekbones to die for. Gah, and the long sexy hair on some of 'em.. yummy


    Anywho, I don't care much about the race of the person I'm dating. My first bf was asian. The only problem with that was that his parents were the stereotypical over-controlling, school-grade obsessed asian parents... which can happen with any ancestry, it's just a stereotype that Asian parents are like that.
     
  20. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    i used to only date latin girls, then white girls. i really like both kinds alot. i think it depends on the girl not her race. it is nice to be able to speak spanish to her otherwise i dont care
     
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