dating a gimini

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  1. ledzep_girl_07

    ledzep_girl_07 Member

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    Has anyone ever dated a gimini and was able to keep them in a relationship? My boyfriend is a gimini, but I've heard it's hard to keep them interested. I think its true. We don't talk very often, when I actually wanted to tell him I was ready to talk more he brought his best friend Katie with us to church in our highschool youth group. The week before he told me all about Katie, but I'm sure he didn't tell Katie I was his girlfriend, she drove to church in her car, and before she left, they walked around outside together, and went over a hill where no one could see them. She's sapposed to be getting married next year on my bf's birthday, and she wants to see if she can have him in the wedding instead of a maid of honor. He told me a couple of weeks before that he was trying to talk her out of getting married because he thinks her fiance is a bad guy or something. He can't figure out why I was mad at him that night when he brought her to church. I didn't want to tell him when all of my friends were around because my bestfriend is his step sister, we were best friends before her mom and his dad got married. Please reply if you can give me advise or if you know much about giminis.
     
  2. forever_stay_punk

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    well i am a gemini and i think you have to keep them interested cuz then you get bored and when you get bored to find someone new and exiting ,,, i dunno that i just me but you should find out for urself :)
     
  3. scarikari

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    I am gemini that also gets bored easy. I have to have a partner that is interesting to me or I move on without a doubt. However, a really happy and conent gemini will not have a wandering heart. Someone that keeps us intersted long enough is someone completes us and makes us not so restless anymore. However, a lot of it depends on timing as geminis have to be ready to commit before they will settle down for good!

    Try humor, affection, love, passion, conversations (but not too deep), fun activities, major makeout sessions, etc. Try something new every night!
     
  4. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    yep, gemini here. Don't let things get too complacent or make him feel trapped into something.

    I have had several long term relationships, and am hoping to find one that lasts and somehow completes me, but it must be someone who appreciates my wilder sides, i have had many that were a little too homebody/traditional for me

    as the other gems have said, its all about feeling in the moment and getting rid of that restlessness
     
  5. squawkers7

    squawkers7 radical rebel

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    My ex-husband is a gemini
     
  6. Posthumous

    Posthumous Resident Smartass

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    i'm a gemini and i wouldn't date me expecting a longterm relationship.
     
  7. CrucifiedDreams

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    Yup, we are a difficult bunch, good luck!
     
  8. superduper15

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    I think gemini guys are super hot...(in bed)
     
  9. AlawlessLulu69420

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    ^:p well i never slept with one but I fell in love deeply with one and I still have feelings for him but he completely feels the opposite...i love gemini's now..even though our signs donot go well together i just love their intellengence and their wantings..but gemini's to feel the same way back...not so strong :confused:
     
  10. Bumble

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    I'm a gemini. I did the whole long term relationship thing and I was totally honest with my x b/f, but he decided to cheat on me, so I ended it right then and there. We were together for almost four years. He is an Aquarius. Now I'm loving the single life and couldn't settle down. If I'm not interested in my dude, then I would put a stop to it, but I know a lot of other geminis who do go behind people's backs. We are sneaky at times, but a very exciting group of people.
     
  11. dietcoketree

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    im a gemini. im a two faced bitch. i make both faces look sweet as can be though :)

    no really, i have like a nice side and a 'yea your dumb' side. i know, stupid.
     
  12. fritz

    fritz Heathen

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    I'm a gemini..
    I'm quite happy in a monogamus relationship, but you'd better have your own interests.
     
  13. Tipo Sensuale

    Tipo Sensuale Senior Member

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    I'm a gemini and I can testify that I am damn good in bed. I love the feeling of being in a monogamous loving relationship, although I admit Geminis can be moody at times.
    Kinda goes with the good in bed bit really - moody and passionate.
     
  14. Pax

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    I'm born on the cusp, Gemini-Tauras, I owuld never cheat on someone as my ex did that to me and I was totally depressed for ages. I guess I have to be kept interested, but you wouldn't have to be all over dramatice or anything. I was going to end it with my ex before I found out that he was dating someone else becasue I felt like I was bored when I wasn't with him, but when he was there it was great
     
  15. scarikari

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    I have two Aquarius friends, it could be a coincidence, but they will do the same thing. Like if I am doing really good in a relationship and am happy, they will say something to try to make me mad at the guy. I have caught them both in lies. One is his sister and she is completely pissing me off!!!!! Maybe they just have hidden agendas, but as a Gemini, I am a people pleaser and don't want to hurt people intentionally.

     
  16. Tipo Sensuale

    Tipo Sensuale Senior Member

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    being a gemini i can totally agree with that.
     
  17. MaryJBlaze

    MaryJBlaze eleven

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