dates before sex

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  1. YankNBurn

    YankNBurn Owner

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    Guys how many dates should you have before you try to have sex?

    Gals how many dates before you try to have sex?
     
  2. seizedbyanger

    seizedbyanger Banned

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    i try to wait a few months
     
  3. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    Ive not met anyone I would consider sleeping with, so I dont think I can really judge.
     
  4. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Depends on the date, really.

    If I've know the guy for several months and then went out on a date or two with me and everything was awesome - why not get some sex?

    Some people prefer to skip the whole dating scheme and jump right into the sex, which isn't my thing.
     
  5. TheGanjaKing

    TheGanjaKing Newbie

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    there have been times where i met up with girls with the sole intention of having sex.

    I waited at most a week after I met my wife to fuck her..... i think she had a b/f at the time or something, but he was out of town in the army, so she couldn't break up with him until he called or some stupid shit, but we couldn't wait any longer.... he was a bitch anyways..... he got so mad too it was funny...
     
  6. deleted

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    Hookers dont date :)
    Crackwhores dont care :)
    Fat chicks want a meal :)
    Skinny pretty chicks want money :(

    Sticks with Classy Hookers they are cheaper ..

    To your original question. 4..
     
  7. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Dates? That would imply that I am trying to impress someone enough to be in a relationship with me.

    I say cut out the middleman.
     
  8. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    I don't know...I've made people wait a year and I've had sex after only a couple dates...depends on how I feel.
    I would think a guy was a sleaze if he tried to sleep with me before 3 nice dates.
     
  9. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Pch. Liar.

    I think a date can be anything pretty neutral, like a trip to the market together, meeting up for lunch, walks to the dog park, tickets to a hockey game, normal stuff that friends can do.

    Why don't you have a special lady in your life, anyway?
     
  10. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    It depends on how much I like you, I slept with my DH on the first date.
     
  11. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    Negative...homeboy needs to get ont he internet or look in the paper to plan in advance, ask me by Tuesday for a Weekend date and make sure he smells good and looks good.
    Any other time is just 'hanging out'
    Unless you have a spontanues type who whisks you off your feet on a moments notice to some fab local or weekend getaway. That suffices as well and will count for 1-2 dates depending ont he amount of time it took him to plan.
     
  12. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    I'm holding out for you or a reasonable facsimile thereof (which there ain't).

    Actually I'm shopping redheads.
     
  13. TheGanjaKing

    TheGanjaKing Newbie

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    that is what you call high maintainance.....
     
  14. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Sometimes they're worth it.

    Sometimes they end up on the ocean floor.

    Whatev.
     
  15. lode

    lode Banned

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    Before I try to have sex?

    Long enough to know your last name. If your wearing a name tag we're ready to rock.

    It completely depends how I feel. As long as I feel I know the person well enough to want to sleep with them, I don't have an arbitrary rule.

    I'm a picky man about who, not how long.
     
  16. azucena

    azucena vagina farts

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    me, too! we're such whores.
     
  17. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    I like being a whore.
     
  18. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    I had sex once!
     
  19. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    i don't date
    i usually pay for sex, that way i don't have to listen to them talk
     
  20. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    You don't pay for sex. You pay them to leave AFTER sex.
     
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