Have you been watching the MSNBC show on these sick assholes going after kids?-Growing up in San Francisco and hitchhiking every where I went; I was constantly being hit on by gay men-I was maybe 15 or 16-It was always easy to smack their hand off my knee and get out but the sickos today are a whole lot more violent-Alot of kids are not being let out of the car-my advice is do not take rides with people you don't know-Being gay is one thing and being a pedophile is another-way too many men and women -priests and female teachers goin after kids-By the way-where were these beautiful blond teachers when I wasin school?-I would have gladly "sacraficed" my virginity to any teacher that looks like Jane Mansfield!-(with the head intack)
AWW ROBO....the old double standard... thing is teachers male or female are entrusted with our children. Any female teacher who preys on anyone under legal age is abusing that trust. Any male teacher also. But as that blond teachers lawyer said "she's too pretty to go to prison"...that changes everything....huh What if she was a big ol fat one with a wart and a hair was growing out of that wart on her nose..and you were 12 and she sat on you??? And she reached in your pants and told you that you were her pet??? and you were so scared but intrigued and your little wee wee was acting a certain way and ..........AAACCCKKK!!! But hohoho now if she was young and petite and blond......your friends would say "lucky devil" and you would puff out your little hairless chest... I had a teacher (algebra) when I was in high school who wore mens suits and was extremely butch. I actually fantasized about her... However what would have been the concensious if she had approached me in a sexual way??? It is NEVER appropiate for an adult to take advantage of a child. Most especially an adult who is an authorative position. That being said...yes, I know I was 13 when I moved in with Larry....but he was not my school teacher and I never told him my real age.And I am trying to justify that!! HAHAHA But yes, I am happy to see someone interested in putting a stop to this crap...but it pisses me off to see that some of these guys have been arrested before and nothing was done..a little probation and thats it..... Perverted justice is wonderful. I was kidnapped when I was 12 by 2 men and it still affects me and I am almost 50. That shit stays with you forever.
Very true Teepi-and yes it does stay with you-The amount of people being busted online and in schools and churches is terrible-And-I was really just kidden about the blond teacher-; but ya know at the age of 15 or 16 with raging hormones; it would be awfully difficult for a young man to turn down a beautiful woman/teacher-see-the teacher is supposed to not make this happen; the child is at a very vurnible age-it is near the mans peak at that age-so-the playing field is really tipped in the pedophiles favor-and they know it!-Time to clean up the net somehow and make the laws work!
Didn't you read William Burrough's "Naked Lunch", Teepi? A couple times in there he says, "Young boys need it special." (I'm not certain he was referring to boys hosing their female teacher, but be that as it may.) When I was 14 or 15, I would have fucked ANY woman, regardless of her looks. Hell, when I was 16 I made a pass at my recently widowed English teacher (at her home) and she was probably 55 and nothing to look at. After I graduated, a guy who I casually knew actually knocked-up his art teacher (she was only 5 or 6 years older). He had to quit school and she got fired. I lost touch with him and still don't know if she had his child. He's dead now, so I guess I'll never know. Double standard or not, it's different with boys. When I was young, I couldn't get enough; now, I couldn't care less. It's nature.
Your completely right on that Thudly-It's Gods little joke to make the male species at their horniest stage at 18 and near 40 for women!-Well that sounds like a good recipe for a teacher/ student romp-I would have done anything to make it with my typing teacher- shit; she was the only reason I took the class-then I took cooking- that was great-I was the only guy with 30 girls-they cooked; I ate and did the dishes-I got numbers and no cooking talent at all-but that was never the objective-mission accomplished!-and I got a C out of it!-amazing-We also had a beautiful hippie chick art teacher-she took a bunch of my buddies to some nude hot springs down by Big Sur-they all got loaded and balled-but the idiots could not keep their mouths shut-she also got fired-bummer-I never got in on that one-yes-young men need sex and older women are just the ticket-nice way to learn!
Right. Pedophiles who are attracted to children the same sex as themeselves are not "gay" they are pedophiles, pure and simple. Gay men or womyn like consenting adults as partners, not children. I had a male teacher, when I was in HS, who was roomates with a dude I hung out with. He was always hitting on me. I was pretty young (about 17 or so) and was kind of intimidated, especially, when we were in his house, but I always turned him down. He was about 30, and I figured he could find womyn his own age. Now that I think about it, it makes me angry, that he was going after students, and none of us even though to say anything. In those days (the 70s) if some guy was hitting on you, no matter who it was, it was YOUR fault, so we never said anything. Sad, but true. I agree with Teepi about the female teachers. They are there to teach our children, not have sex with them. If some teacher was after my 14 year old son's ass, I'd happily have her put in jail. It is just wrong to try to intimidate children who don't always have the internal mechanisms to either make a choice about a "relationship" or to be able to say no effectively.
Yep, sometimes nature seems cruel. 18 vs. 40.. All the more reason for parents to speak with their children about sex and relationships. It does not happen enough because we feel icky talking to our kids and they feel icky hearing it..but it is important. My kids talk with me about things that would shock alot of people...I learned to put any personal feelings aside when I am in a teachers role with them...no judgements. Thats the promise I made when they were young...they could ask me anything..tell me anything and I would truly give them my opinion if they wanted it....no judgements. They learned that they would get the truth from me and facts and then they had tomake an informed decision about what they wanted to information for. If you are in a relationship and know how to ask for what you need and the other person loves and cares for you they will listen to those needs...some things will be given automatically some will be negotiated. So if you are having sex and you desire something, it needs to be made known. Most people are not mind readers. The point to my ramblings here are that the reason alot of people do kooky things like go to prostitutes or act out sexually is because some need is not being met in a loving relationship.....or maybe they are whacko's but most are just looking for something they are not getting from who they think they should be getting it from. And usually its because they are not talking about needs and desires. Now as far as William Burroughs goes...mmm I like some of his writings, I think he was an interesting person, but as far as any sexual advice, I don't put too much weight into a man who chops off part of a finger because his boyfriend left him. The whole 18-40 thing may go back to our cave days...men need the orgasm to reproduce..women don't. Young men were given that urge to procreate, they had the stamina to get down with alot of women or numerous times with one woman to make sure the species lived on. As far as women reaching a sexual peak at 40..mmm I'm not so sure about this but it may be a myth....maybe women just don't give a shit at that point what anyone thinks and they finally start asking for what they need...or MAYBE men ahve calmed down by then enough to learn some good sexual techniques and pleasure a woman. Or maybe women finally get past the point of feeling like they are first mothers and secondly women cause the kids are out of the house and she's free to recognize her sexuallity again. (thanks society) I have been with younger men and I'll tell ya the women they were with after me were alot happier......
As for the 18 - 40 thing. It is different. A different meaning to "sexual peak." In men, it is meant by the frequency of abilty to gain an erection (at 18, about every 5 minutes from what I remember ) and a high sperm count, in womyn, "sexual peak" at 40 means "ability to have more orgasms and more reliable multiple orgasms." I certainly was horny all the time at 17 to 20 years old, same as the boys my age, but orgasm is much different, more reliable and more of them, in my 40s. Womyn are certainly more fertile at 18 than they are in their 40s, (so, if you are talking fertility, or horniness, 18 would be a girl's sexual peak as well) but hormones (probably more testosterone, which occurs in perimonopause) and experience with sex, contributes to the ability to have multiples, which most 18 year old girls just don't have. And although orgasm isn't neccesary to concieve, there is quite a bit a data which suggests it helps. Not Neccesary, but orgasm not only opens the cervix more, but can even "shake loose" an egg which may have not dropped for a few more days. Of course, we all know womyn who were raped and didn't come, who got pregnant, and girls who got pregnant before they even learned how to come, but orgasm can help, in some circumstances. But, I think when saying "sexual peak" we are comparing apples and oranges, (or men and womyn.)
And then there's Gods other little joke-men are at their horniest at 7 am-and it;s 8 pm for women-go figure-Thats when the testosterone is highest-and yes I'm sure the fact that it's the end of the day and the kids are asleep; makes a difference; But I have always found that to be true-At night I like to sleep-in the morning I'm ready to get it on-Well if we were all alike this world would be a drag-Will somebody please pull the plug on American Idol/Idiots!-It was cute at first but it is cutthroat now-
You know theres this book called preditors. A criminal pyscologist who has delte with phedophiles, rapist etc... It really is knowledge able. But its kind of grafic. But phedophiles are found inoccent and if they do go to jail they are usually not posed as a threat to society when they turely are. And then they go to work in Churchs or some where they know they won't get a record check. And even if they do preist usually forgive them because they repent. But they truely don't mean it and very minipulative. 18 your legally aloud to date, have sex, do what you please with older men or women. But thats not the thing its "kids" or even youngr people are being minipulated into something they don't want, and their getting away with it which isn't fair and in just!
Thats right and it just keeps gettin worse-part of that is due to the internet-It provides a great place for sex freaks to hide and lie their ass off -you can be who or whatever you want online-Why anyone would tell strangers their address or phone number is unbelievable!-Some teens do this not realizing they may be talkin to an old guy (56) like me-They think they are talking to another young person-very dangerous to themselves and their families to give out any info-Don't let this stop you from making friends ; but be very careful-you are a young girl and a prime target for alot of pedophiles-good luck-enjoy your life-you have alot of fantastic' wonderful things to see and do-and besides all the bs; it is still a great place to be-
Jesus!, robspace: don't refer to yourself as an "old guy" at the age of 56! How does that make me look at the age of 58? An old hippy? WEEP!!!!!!!!!
Hey now...its relative. larry is 60 and I could not love him one bit more....he is HOT STUFF!! I love being around youz guys...and I am a YOUNG CHICK!!! Well compared to you I AM......HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Mentally' I'm in my 20s and physically most people think I am 40 something' but in actuality; I am just well preserved thanks to a pickled liver and years of experimental drug use-Maybe one of em has a Peter Pan effect that were not aware of--But; on Friday I go see the heart Dr. about these chest pains I been having-This is a reminder of how old I really am-The ticker is acting up-there again it could be from all the experiments I did-the heart has to really put up with alot of abuse-It and the liver are the 2 most abused organs in the body-(the penis comes in 2nd- if ya been lucky!)
