Okay, so my parents are divorced and I live with my dad. One day i was in my room and i had my stashbox on top of my bed putting my shit away after smoking a few bowls, and I didn't realize my dad was home. He walks in and I tried to hide it real quick but he saw it, and took all my shit. While he was going through my box, though, i managed to snatch my pipe and a lighter before he could see them. So I was grounded for a while, he said he was going to test me but that never happened. So I finally gained his trust back and he let me go out again and of course I started smoking again. So one night i'm in my basement smoking and I thought my dad was upstairs asleep. Turns out he wasn't asleep, and he came down into the basement and caught me red handed for the second time within a month. Takes my pipe with a full bowl packed in it and my lighter. So today i was in his closet looking for a shirt to borrow and guess what I find: my pipe and my lighter, but when he took the pipe off me the bowl was packed, now there's just ash. He had previously told me that he threw everything away and I would never see it again. So I know he smoked it. What do you guys think I should do? Should I confront him about it?
Call his ass on it but make sure you reinforce you were looking for a shirt and a shirt only and that it was not your prime objective to snoop through his belongings, you understand that you will not be getting your possesions back but if there is some trust that needs to be built, ask him why he lied to you about throwing it out and why its now ash.
i think you should talk to him if you have the guts and arent afraid of him. some people are scared of there dads, like me
if it was right there in his closet and you could see it from a distance (the door of his room) just say "i opened the door to ask you something and saw my bowl in your closet" if he asks why you snooped say you weren't and the closet door was open so you could see it from the doorway. If he wants to know what you were asking...say....you wanted to go out for lunch or something.
leave this page up on the computer and let him read your post, pretend you dident mean to leave this up. it looks accidental but sneaky at the same time.
Showing your parents your on hipforums would be absolutley retarded, no offense. I would talk to him about smoking, why you do it, how your responsible/safe, how it is not to bad for you (certainly not as bad as alcohol, for example) and then confront him about it. However, if he responds negatively during the conversation he will absolutley deny smoking the bowl, so unless you can prove that the ash couldn't be there if he just blew it out accusing him will only make it worse.
HELL YES, i would never let him live it down, i would bring it up every chance i got. Every Mornig, afternoon, and night. The word hypocrite would never leave my mouth.
