hmmm well if she wont be ok with it if u tell her , then thers no option but to go do it wihtout telling, cos u gota explore or u will regret it
Besides the suggestion above, you can also consider being single. Doesn't matter how old you are, because you can always get another one. But besides that, you she be able to be yourself no matter who you're with. Even if leaving that person, or them leaving you means your happiness, then you should do it. Because all you're doing is hiding who you are, and one day when you're tired of your relationship, you just might go out there and cheat. I'm married, and considering giving in to my bisexual curiosity. Which obviously means cheating on my wife behind her back. But because we're raised to do what's right and be considerate of others in our metro-Christianic society, we often don't get the opportunity to do what we really want to for ourselves, or be as expressive as we want to without being scrutinized or chastized by others that cling to rules that were established during a by-gone era. So I say go for it. And if you're up for telling her and she doesn't approve, just know that there are over 6 billion human beings on this planet to choose from.
mmm...thats a tough one! But based on what you've said above, I have a couple of questions / points for you to ponder first: 1/ how did you present the idea to your other half? 2/ did she say why she was against it? 3/ you seem torn as to whether you are really into this or not...have you considered the fact that it may be just a fantasy, and that it may be better to just leave it as such? 4/ what is motivating you to try it anyway? 5/ and last, but not least, is it really worth cheating on your lady? Now, don't get me wrong, I am not saying Do or Don't...I'm saying think about it really carefully before doing anything. Fantasies that are really strongly appealing can become borderline obsessions if left unsatisfied, so I bet you have been thinking about it a lot. But have you seriously considered whether it is the act of sucking cock that arouses you, or the idea of it that turns you on? In regards to point 1 and 2, maybe the situation could be helped with communication? Generally women will feel threatened by the idea of their man wanting to become sexually active with another man...it is something she probably doesn't understand and feels she cannot compete with. However, should she be made to understand that it is something that is really important for you to discover, and that it doesn't lessen your love for her, maybe she can be convinced that it doesn't have to be the end of your realtionship. However, if it is a deal breaker for her, then I'm afraid she is not the right person for you and I would probably consider becoming single. And I would do so before trying out cock...cheating is ALWAYS bad, no matter what the circumstances. Those urges you have will not go away, and I am a strong believer in life partners allowing room and understanding for sexual growth and discovery within the relationship. Good luck...and hope it turns out to be everything you want it to be
u need to be honest with her she would wat that from u and if u really love her u wont need to explore with any one else cause the love u have for her satisfies all of ur needs. i remeber the first time i sucked cock it wasent all that grate its better with a guy u have feelings for or one with a really really big cock mmmm oh so nice and long and thick sliding in and out of ma throat so nice but when ur with some one u care about and u really want to be with them u gotta say no to ur urges and just deal with it. it sucks but thats the price of love
- just go for it - I think that first you should see what your girlfriend might be like if you experiment with anougher guy. E.g. how bad would it be if she finds out. If she docent mind then i think you should tell her but if it could affect your relationship then it may be better just to go for it, and if you discover that you would raver be with a guy then the issue should be taken up with everyone. e.g. girlfriend and possible boy friend.
second of all, and most importantly, i think you should try it, or you might regret it, the thought of what might be/what could have been/what you realy want will stick and stress you out.
I think you should do it. I am a married guy and have been sucking dick for about 6 years. I love my wife but I love to suck dick too. Sex with her is not so great anymore and she is just not into it. I'd rather suck dick than have sex with her. Love the feel of a big one sliding in and out of my mouth.
Hate to say it, but yeah, act on it. Usually I would like to say there's a way around hurting your girlfriends feelings. But there's not. It's important to explore yourself. The question is, would you let her had the boot on the other foot? If yes, explain that to her. No one should deny there sexual, and rather primal, urges. She will be upset i'm sure, but as long as you are honest then you can go for it with a clear conscience. Well, almost clear, you would have just practiced homosexuality
You aren't married and can still do what you want. It would be better if she knew and shared your curiosity, as you would share in hers. I'm sure that are a bunch of older guys who were curious and felt the same exact way you did, me included. I was lucky to have a wife and gay friend who encouraged my exploring my curiosity.
I definately say u should try it. I would at leat try 2 discuss it with her though. Sex in all of it's forms is ausome! It's pure innocent joy and should be expressed as such. Good luck. p e a c e
