I'm curious are there women that prefer only cunnilingus in their sexual life and aren't interested in PIV sex or giving blowjobs?
I was with a lesbian for a while who struggled with her sexuality. She would rather have me go down or we 69 until i finish versus penitrate. It was too emotional for her and she would get upset after intercourse from time to time.
As an identified bisexual with decided lean towards being lesbian, for me, cunnilingus done properly is wonderful, but a penis definitely has a place in the sexual pantheon. Emotionally, it's who is attached to the penis that I find I can't "love." Fisting is of course the ultimate.
At my house I always give and my wife always receives. She does not perform oral sex on me. All of our sexual activities are directed to her physical pleasure and it's awesome for both of us that way.
I was with a lesbian who was in the process of discovering that she was bisexual. Oddly enough, she preferred blow jobs to PIV.