Cumming too early during sex

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by caboy, May 23, 2009.

  1. robf

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    if you can during foreplay.... make her cum first.... then there is no hangs up on how long you last...
    take a breather and off you go again, second one and other ones will last longer....
    everybody is a winner then :)
     
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  2. Musikero

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    And if you still orgasm before she does, then finger and lick her until she does.
     
  3. demetrius shardson

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    ding ding ding i first discovered this when i got released from jail last year no sex or masturbation in months. i was expecting to climb into bed and pop one off but to my surprise i put it down like something for porno. buttt i love masturbation and have ever since i could but with that newly discovered bit of information its something i have drastically cut back on. and as for masturbating before YMMV but for me its like walking in with a loaded gun.... its like by masturbating you are decreasing your need for certain stimuli to get off if that makes any sense
     
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  4. hatebreeder666

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    prison sucks....
     
  5. ThatGuyWeede

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    Personally j/o beforehand never worked for me. Lots of good suggestions but this is what worked for me. When you start having sex, don't try to do 10,000 thrusts a minute. Slow down to a comfortable pace and (even though everyone has pretty much said the opposite) focus on how you feel. When you start to get to a point where you're going to cum, stop. Stop everything. Don't try to pull out or wiggle your toe or anyhting, just freeze and let that 'im gonna blow' feeling subside. After you feel like you're back in control, start again, slowly.

    Do this several times until you get a good feel for it. Basically for me, after the 3rd or 4th time, i didn't feel like I needed to blow so much and was able to sit back, relax, and do my thing. I'd suggest trying what's been suggested and figure out what works for you. And of course you could tell your gf what's going on, and that you want to work on it to eventually please her if she has any problems with you starting and stopping. Hope you figure it out
     
  6. deeRock

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    Jerkin it before you go will make you last longer.... IF you can get it up and be good and hard and intense... Thats my problems with getting off before you go to get off. once im done, im pretty well done and lose interest. It really upsets her when im not interested...
     
  7. deeRock

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    I agree. Been with mine for 4 years... Its funny when I tell her to stop or i stop giving it to her and she tells me not to stop b/c that just makes it worse haha! When she says she wants it, it just turns me on that much more lol
     
  8. SebastianCrab

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    These early cumming is also called as premature ejaculation and many of the youths of present generation face these problem. There are many remedies available in the market for these issue, right from generic medication till many physical remedies that can help you last longer during sex. Today I am in hurry so cant tell you in detail. Will soon be back with the reasons for these unsatisfied sex as well as ejaculation in detail.
     
  9. machinist

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    this is what you do: beat your meat like it owes you money for the preceding days. then the day you're gonna have sex eat viagra.
     
  10. rygoody

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    getting off too quick is way better than not being able to get off at all... or even erectile dysfunction

    take advantage of your heightened sensitivity while you have! eventually it'll take you longer to finish it
     
  11. SebastianCrab

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    Sex is the natural phenomenon occurring in the individuals when the hormones get excited. Sexual intercourse is the important part of the sex that consists of the insertion of the penis into the female’s reproductive organ. Sexual intercourse is a mandatory part of the sex as it helps the women to get pregnant and enjoy the beautiful feeling of motherhood. Please understand that sex is not only the physical activity, but it is also an emotional activity in which the two bodies and souls get together for giving each other pleasure. Men specifically think of sex as the physical activity and take it as granted that their partner also think of sex as sexual activity. But, they should understand that women think of sex as the emotional activity. So, understanding the perspective of your partner about the sex is the first step towards making the sex life better. Women also should understand the men’s perspective about the sex and should cooperate actively in the sex.
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  12. HealthPrima

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    Maybe you could do it slowly. Someone said by controlling your breath would help you last longer.

    foreplay may help too. Good luck !!

    aniway. I find this articles. hopefully it can help you

     
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    my wife gets angry with me most of the times during our sex becouse i cum very soon while she needs more my dick stay up right . oh my poor wife
     
  15. ronj1986

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    Search amazon.com for desensitizing spray. Spray it in about 10 minutes before sex & you will last 3-5 times longer. Spray it all around the tip & shaft. This is a cheap solution that has worked for me. After a few minutes you will feel your genitals warm up, then cool back down to normal temperature.
     
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    I had a boyfriend that would cum very quickly and then apologize about it for the next 5 minutes. I didn't mind that he came quickly so much, it meant that I excited him. We ended up having more foreplay so that I would orgasm too. We also experimented with different toys, creams and even performing on camera all to make it more fun.
     
  17. AceK

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    you can take SSRIs or antidepressants like Cymbalta and they have the effect of making most people unable to cum, but for people who cum quickly you may be able to last 5 or 10 minutes
     
  18. Irish Warrior

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    Instead of jacking off before sex, have better foreplay!! Let her give you a nice slow handjob and/or blowjob. Don't be afraid to cum during foreplay, then you can go eat her pussy and finger her gspot at the same time and make her scream!! Spend at least 20mins eating her out, by the time your finished eating pussy your cock should be hard again and ready for a good fucking session!! Have you tried a cock ring??
     
  19. Flyboy1701

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    I tend to come fairly quickly the first time, and then perform much longer for the second and third act of the evening, without any medical intervention. Try for a round 2, or 3.

    Occasionally a doctor friend will toss me a Viagra sample, which is an incredible recreational drug (duly prescribed by a physician). If you really have difficulty, talk to your dr about it... even if you don't need it to get hard. With as much control as it gives me, I am sure it can help with PE (but consult with your physician - I'm not a Dr).

    There's no shame in wanting to fuck like a porn star, and shorten your refractory period, and the technology exists (I'd bet that most male porn actors use it). Your girl won't mind being fucked like a porn star either.
     
  20. oralover

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    I love giving head so if a guys cums in five minutes it's fine because I get to suck another one out of that much more quickly. I once gave a guy 4 bj's in less than an hour each one with a pretty good mouthful of cum that I swallowed. Yum.
     

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