This is a question for people (guys in particular) who do not enjoy cuddling. What is it that you find unnattractive about the idea of cuddling, and why do you not enjoy it? And for those who do, why exactly do you enjoy it? - Personally I adore cuddling, I value it over sex. For there is nothing more valuable to me than the experience of lying in bed with your loved one and cuddling for hours on end. And I cannot see how anyone would feel otherwise.