Crushing On Other Hf Members....

When it happens, it just makes me smile and get all fluttery. Crushes are so fun.

 

It can be fun for awhile until you go across country to move in with her, then she cheats on you. Real experience. Real talk. Yes it was through hip forums back in 2008-9. She is a decent person but she never really apologized to me and I still hold a bit of a grudge. I don't even think she gets on here anymore. If she does I haven't seen her posts, thank god for that anyway. Will not name names, that would just be in poor taste.

People just need to be careful as to what they're leading on. It needs to be the truth. Always the truth. Online relationships are cute until you realize you really love the person and want to take it to the next level. Its easy to forge connections on here because Hippie types who care enough to find this place seem hard to come by. I took the leap of faith and it didn't work out. Safe to say that I learned my lesson.

 

What lesson was that?

I met my wife on here

 

Wow, I am so sorry that happened to you!

My crushes are all in good fun, as I love my husband dearly and am definitely not looking to meet anyone here for anything more than a friendship.

 

Wow! That's awesome! Seriously.

To my knowledge...I don't think anyone here has a crush on me but there was once a comment on one of my profile pics that may have been from a female or a male....still don't know for sure. I suspect it was a male...which is still ok in my book. Gay dudes complimenting you is still kind of the same as women...sort of.

I don't have a crush on any HF members but there are a good number of people I'd love to meet and hang out with some day. There is another music-based forum that I go to where people meet up at concerts and while on vacations, business trips, etc. Some solid friendships have been formed because people have been meeting up at shows, etc. for 15 years. A few months ago, a guy from that site was depressed and suicidal. I had his number and called him right away and talked for maybe an hour or two with him. Internet friendships are kind of an interesting phenomenon.

 

like pen pals on steroids

 

Well, damn, and here I thought you had a crush on me......

I guess i will go cry now.........

I am teasing you, Wizard.........

 

Actually...as I was typing that, I honestly thought "Well...if I had to pick a crush I guess it would be Moonglow...she's always so nice". Not even shitting you.

What's up, girl?

 

awhhhh....what a charmer you are.....lol

ok I feel better now.....

He kissed the girls and made them cry....who was that? Georgie Porgie?

anyway......I looked to see if the moon was up in the sky, but don't see it yet.

 

We don't need the moon. You make me feel the moon when I'm with you.

 

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
You are funny.....as well as smooth........

 

I'm not usually very smooth....unless I'm trying to impress a lady. Then I'm totally cheesy and dorky. So let's be the first HF faux-couple. What do you say?

 

You will have to join the other admirers......

It has been fun playing with you here, Wizard......

It's fun to play once in awhile.....

 

Been there, crushed that.

I like a person. but sshh it's a secret.

 

yep..there's definitely a few members here I would like to crush.

 

Oh boy...I think I have to count that as a turn-down. Maybe my first turn-down in nearly 20 years. Damn! I still think my graying beard is making me sexier. I was even going to send her flowers for her birthday!!

 

i'm very flattered.

first? i think you're way too late for that.

i assume the girls would cry if atsizat kissed them.

 

Valid point. Let's say the most recent. But alas...I am a shunned lover.

 

OUCH!

 

i think everyone gets involved in some type of bullshit at some point .. its best to keep things as real as possible because bullshit is hard and very laborious to maintain, and i'm sure all parties involved would appreciate it. i guess what's more important is being able to understand the motivation behind bullshit ... there's usually a much bigger picture.