Crushes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdneKLhsWOQ

I'm totally crushing on my friend "Jim" (I wont say his real name)

We went out for a night cap tonight (yes, my husband was aware, so calm the fuck down) and, for the second time this week, I feel like my life is a fucking Taylor Swift song.

Crushes are so fun.

 

But hurt someone in the end

 

I reread this post and now I feel vulnerable. I shouldn't hip forum it up when I'm drunk....

 

Game dangerous you play...

 

Yeah I know how you feel bout your life bein like a Taylor Swift song.....So is mine at the moment .....Bloody shit!

 

Is that the name of the song?

 

Aww don't go fretting.....You'll be okay.....We've all done a drunk text or somethin like that in the past......Don't worry bright eyes.

 

I think a crush is on someone you havnt or could never date....once you go out with them you acting on the crush and taking it to the next level....crush aspect is done

 

crushes are fun but you're not afraid it could progress hanging out with him alone ? I have a crush on someone right now (I'm also in a relationship) but not sure I would want to hang out with him alone, I wouldn't want my feelings to get all confused. Right now its just a pleasant distraction.

 

Having a crush or an attraction to someone that is not your partner is a perfectly normal and common experience. It's fine to have those feelings, but if you do, then you should consider putting barriers in place that cannot be crossed, such as going out with them. You say your husband was aware. However I guessing he is not aware of you feelings toward this guy, and if he was, he would definitely not be ok with you two hanging out. I am certainly no expert on love or relationships, but I think you need to take some time to reflect on the impact this crush (or limerence) might have on your relationship.

 

"I'm not gay, but he's got a nice face." --Keller Williams

 

assuming you're a cute girl with a husband to go home to.

no, actual symptom. he needs to see a doctor ASAP.

 

Oooo really? What song?

 

I showed my husband this thread and he is laughing his ass off at me.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lW0YGC68qP4

 

Drunk posts are often the best.

 

I think crushes are another way of showing affection and realizing that you care about someone. They also "make marriage more interesting", according to my husband.

Normally I wouldn't go to the bar alone with a male friend (it isn't appropriate), however I think it is different if its with "Jim". He is so social and hangs out with friends of the opposite sex all the time without his wife present.

 

Yeah? I felt kind of dumb about it when I woke up today. Then I showed my husband the thread and we both had a good laugh (although he laughed a big harder than I did)

 

Nobody wants to be married to somebody who is rejected by everybody else. Women who flirt with my husband have good taste, even though that might not be what's on my mind at that moment; I might be more interested in ripping their eyeballs out.