could you die a virgin?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by localhippy, May 23, 2005.

  1. localhippy

    localhippy Senior Member

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    well, could you? Both virgins and non can answer this. If you ARE a virgin, do you think you could live with it til death? (would you be curious?)
    If you arent a virgin, pretend you are (its hard i know), could you go through your lifetime without sex? I dont know what made me think about it, but i think America is obsessed with sex in some sort of way.

    Honestly, im not a virgin, and well...i dont think i could live without it for a decent amount of time.
     
  2. WeeDMaN

    WeeDMaN a pothead

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    if Im a virgin by 30, could u kill me please?
     
  3. Peace Attack

    Peace Attack Make War

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    No, I could not be a virgin till I die.


    What's the point of living if you don't get to fuck?
     
  4. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    depends on how long I would be living... not for too long though... actaully I dunno you might be able to get used to it after somany years... (I'm talking at least 30)
     
  5. colloquialone

    colloquialone Member

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    while I am certainly not a virgin, I just got divorced but am definately not planning to do without forever. wonder what it's going to be like to be with someone else when I've only been with my ex husband for twenty years. how do nuns do it?
     
  6. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    I'm 21..currently a virgin, and I could go my whole life without it. But I would be curious of course.
     
  7. Becknudefck

    Becknudefck Senior Member

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    hell no. give me another year....
     
  8. Bloody_Kisses

    Bloody_Kisses Thizzler

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    fuck no. im not a virgin and i cant imagine any other way.
     
  9. SilverClover14

    SilverClover14 Senior Member

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    I actually could. I'm not a virgin, but sex isn't all that desirable for me. *shrugs* There's more important things in life. The only problem with that little arrangment is that I want to have kids.
     
  10. black

    black Member

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    i cant because i am not.
     
  11. goldmund

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    I saw an older nun on the train the other day and wondered the same thing. Obviously people go through their whole life and never have sex. Seems a little unnatural to me, but think of all the time you would save if that wasn't even an option! Guys esp., if you could channel all of that energy into academia, social development, etc. etc. think of what we could accomplish!

    No offense to the ladies, I love you all, but we spend entirely too much time pandering so we can get our willies wet. However, if you are one of the lucky ones to find true love and affection, the other pursuits above then pale.
     
  12. _androidette

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    _Having a kid w/o having sex is possible.

    & yes I could. Like someone already said, I would be curious but if for some strange reason I had to I could.
     
  13. lawngirl

    lawngirl Member

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    hm...

    well, on one hand, i have to say no, i couldn't.
    i'm not a virgin, i'm a sexual person with a sexual past that has made me who i am today. i couldn't exist any other way than i am. or rather, i wouldn't.

    on the other hand, it's life, and life is wonderful. you can enjoy life without sex. it's utterly ridiculous to give up the feeling of sunshine on naked skin, or the excitement of a road trip with friends, or the experience of snorkeling in the south pacific.

    also, how are you defining virginity? penis-in-vagina sex? can one have endless oral and anal sex and still be a virgin? what about gay men and lesbians? i'm not talking about someone who once got head, but more about those younger teens these days who have oral sex a lot, or do it in the bum to preserve their virginity, and those kids are certainly not virginal by any means.
     
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    Ahhh.. good ol fuzzywuzzy again. Poor guy, must be frustrated after losing his hair, getting fat and having to brag about a fake radio show. That was AM...right? HAHAHAHA!
     
  15. dawn_sky

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    No, I would not be willing to give up sex for the rest of my life. Cheap casual sex I could do without. But the thought of never sharing that deep emotional, physical, and spiritual connection with someone I truly love and who loves me back... To deny oneself that experience is just masochistic.
     
  16. SpliffVortex

    SpliffVortex Senior Member

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    You must be very bored.
     
  17. joker

    joker Senior Member

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    i could, but i want to experience sex before i'm 30.
     
  18. xthevalkyriex

    xthevalkyriex Member

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  19. Ursula Buendia

    Ursula Buendia Member

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    I don't live in America and here many women who don't get merried die virgins. That acts on their psychic and if the person you are talking to seems "strange" you guess she is the "old virgin".
    People need sex for their health. it is proved.
    What about nuns? I know one jok:
    In the convent nuns are told: Today we have carrot for dinner
    nuns: Yeaaaahhhhh!!!!!
    -grated carrot
    nuns: bllaaaahh :( :(
    :D

    Everyone needs sexual pleasure.

    I think if you do any sexual not alone, you aren't a virgin anymore, so I agree with you. Those teens are virgins only biological, it doesn't matter.
     
  20. Jinny

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    Well, thanks for your tactful non-ageist comments guys - I am a 30 year old Virgin.
    30 is not old ! I am no worse mentally - not that I am aware of anyway - for not having real physical sex at 30, than if I'd shagged half the town at 16years old. While I admit to having some curiosity about it all, I am still single, and will not just bed anyone because 'thats what people do'. I have never been a sheep in following what my peers and fellow humans do, and so if I die a Virgin, then so be it.

    Anyway, in real answer to your question, I don't care if someone told me my world was ending and I was to die in 24hrs. I will only choose to have sex if and when I am ready, and not just because of fast approaching death. In any case, if the theorists are right, we should all be living today as if it were our last....I should have shagged the whole UK by now if I lived like that !!!

    Another point is, that if I knew that I was to depart prematurely, at a certain time, I sure as hell wouldn't waste it on experimentation just because I'd never had sex before and its what people consider that 'normal' people do. I would want to be with my family, and friends. And if the first time hurts like some people say, then I don't wanna die, crossed legged and thinking " Ouchie! Why the hell am I going to die with a sore lower anatomy...it wasn't all that afterall !!! " ;)
     

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