Well this girl and I started hooking up and pretty much was just "friends with benefits" a long time ago. Days later she wanted to get into a relationship with me, but I never took that chance(because of school and such). Its been about 4 months now since we last did anything or what not, and Im kinda starting to like her again. What I did wrong: -She told me she liked me alot and would talk about alot to her friends she said. -I kinda made her wait too long for me to actually say I wanted a relationship, because at that time I didnt want a relationship. I was uptight in school and other things to handle. Now I kinda want to try and get her back. Bad thing is, she has a boyfriend at the moment, and I dont think she is going to be with him much. I never see them together when I come around. She still talks to me every once in awhile, but I just dont want to be in the friend zone really..and Im trying to avoid the friend zone. So I flirt with her when she comes around me. She still acts like she was around me back then(flirty; kinda hitting or budging at me), so I think she does still have feelings for me at least...I mean she told me she always told people about me alot.(Thats when she wanted to be with me.) I JUST DONT WANT TO BE TOO MUCH IN THE FRIEND ZONE. But I would like some pointers on trying to get this girl back. Like something more of: Flirting, should I say something when she sees me next time? Should I play fight with her like she always did me? Should I stay in the friend zone with her until she breaks up with her current boyfriend? Or what!!! I just could use some advice from you all. Thank you.. and please only serious pointers. :toetap05:
if she liked you once.... she could like you again. let her know. don't be intruding. if she loves this other boy... then leave her be you missed your chance! but it never hurts to try and you can't expect her to read your mind. yes get in the friend zone... that always goes well.. at least for me. i'd date anyone of my close guy friends. hope it helps a lil -kush-
This is continuing thread for http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=328614&f=65 That thread explains my stuff about her. Now I heard something. So I just heard that they broke up...What should I do? Should I give her signs that I still like her..or should I wait it out? I dont want to go to fast after she just been broken up with in a 2 month relationship. Any pointers would help. Thanks
i say now that she broke it off with him, start hanging out more, go slowly ya know don't wanna over whelm her, but shit you said yourself that she tried before to relationship, i bet if you try to relationship this time she'll be all about it. but if she's not you can always bring back up FWB.
idk bout the friend zone. ive got a friend that as soon as she thinks of you as a friend, she'l never change her thinking. whereas i, seem to fall for my friends, and its worked so far with the guy im with. but truth be told, ive never been really close friends, jst friends you no. so this isnt really gonna help you at all hmmmm.....well now that shes single, ur allowed to go after her without being beaten up, haha who broke up with who?? just tell her how you feel, mate, hopefully it works out for you, hope to hear more
