Controlling Sex Drive (High Sex Drive)

I come come out of a 5 year relationship around last January and had sex once mid week and maybe once or twice at the weekend. We didn't live together just girl friend boy friend distance relationship.

Well now going out with my newer girlfriend. We did it 4/5 times a week for the first few weeks (honey moon period if you like). Now 4 months later we don't seem to do it much. I want to do it in the week as I sometimes when I go back to hers and she lives with her parents.

Well with her working Monday to Friday she does feel tired after a day's work and complains about suffering with low blood pressure in the past so she doesn't always feel like shes up for it. So now me part time work and always up for it and a very high sex drive and always want to it. When I ask and she doesn't want to she says she's tired. I do admit I get the face on but I find it a little bit heart breaking and take a little in the wrong way. She does take the pill and admit to dropping her sex drive.

I don't want to pressure her into doing it as we do it at the weekend. Is it wrong to expect sex after getting a lot from the previous relationship. We've talked and she just says she's too tired on a week day plus he mum did hear us doing once and her mum spoke to her about it. And I think that's might have put her off doing it too. When asking why we did a lot at first she replies she had time off work which she did as she just come back from a holiday so she had a lot of energy and it was the honey moon period which everyone goes off eventually.


So yeh is there away to sort my sex drive out because I want it to have an impact on our relationship and am I wrong to expect to every time I see her?
Work wise she's a trainee soliciter.

Cheers

 

Being open with her about your needs is very important. Even more important is taking care of your partner first. Rather than trying to talk her into it, make her want it. Since she works full time, and you part time, make an extra effort to take the things away that stress her out, or make her tired. Help with housework, meals, and maybe pamper her a little after work with a bubble bath or a massage. Make her feel sexy and loved, and the rest will fall into place.

 

We don't live together as both live with our parents. I'm 24 and she's 23. We see each other once in the week, meeting up for something to eat then sometimes go back to her house and pretty much every weekend. Iv tried some things to get her in the mood but she just says she's too tired in the week. We've talk about it, it's either tired from work, feel a bit low, low sex drive or just ill in general. When the weekend comes it's fine we might do it once and at a push twice.

For example we had sex Saturday day before we went out. We went back to the hotel room early (same room as friends) and wasn't didn't want to do it so she said we shall do it tomorrow. So we went back to her caught up on sleep and woke up. We was chilling on her bed watching tele and tried kissing her neck but she just wanted to chill out instead so I got the face on with her saying she said we would do it but then choosing not to again because she's tired/Feeling ill, she offered to give me a hand job/blowy and obviously I agreed.

We have talked about it and she did admit that she does find it hard to get in the mood. I asked does she actually enjoy sex with me and she loves it, I do make her cum multiple times on top and from behind and last 20-30 mins most times longer. What could I do to get her in the mood? I don't want to be pushy and for me to ask most times, obviously sex should be a mutual decision and wouldn't never want to do it if I feel like I'm forcing her.

 

get a real job and you'll be in the same boat as her.