considering dumping my girlfriend

okay so i'm a 22 year old dude with a 21 year old girlfriend. we've been dating for about 5 months now and it seems like our sex life is decreasing at a rapid rate, we usually spend 2-3 nights together per week, at first i would get sex everyday multiple times a day. now im LUCKY to get to fuck her one time in the week, and its effecting our relationship. im a pretty sexual guy i want it at least twice a week, and i dont think im being irrational. is this a reasonable reason to dump a girl for?

 

Of course it is reasonable as the palm sisters are always up for a night on the town.

As an worth mentioning, what are you doing to contribute to or correct this situation?

 

Honestly I do everything for this woman, and at night time i try to get real close to her and start kissing her neck and she just says shes not in the mood or maybe later, and when later comes its the same thing or she falls asleep..

 

You Sound Like A Very Selfish And

Hollow Soul, My Advice Would Be That She Dumps You...



Cheers Glen.

 

i sound hollow? because i enjoy having sex with the woman i love and want her to feel the same way towards me?

 

yeah i will, because with her ex bf's she fucked them whenever they wanted to, she felt obligated to please them and even had anal sex with them. no such luck with me, it's not fair.

 

Butthurt?

Every time there is a troll it shows within a couple of posts.....

 

And Therefore She Does Not Want Him "In" Her...



Cheers Glen.

 

agreed:2thumbsup:

 

no, i think she loves me, shes just bipolar

 

why would i do that? because i have expectations of what she should do for me?

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

yup. you're being totally reasonable man. dump her, and find someone who will oblige.

conversation over

 

That's unfair to say. He said he'd be willing to settle on sex twice a week. I don't think asking for sexual intimacy in a relationship is trivial to maintaining a relationship.


Before he ends the relationship, I think he should attempt to talk to her about what caused the good times of the relationship to pass. What can be done about it?

Wait, do you mean this medically or are you just saying this as an expression?

 

I would dump a chick for having a low sex drive. No doubt about it.

You should make sure there are no underlying issues causing it, but if she simply doesn't want to be intimate than walk away. Don't listen to these people, there's no sense in settling for something that doesn't make you happy.

 

Yep, because it'll get a lot worse and likely not ever get better.

 

Yup. Especially since they're only 5 months into the relationship....

 

winter strains the best of relationships.. http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/why-love-is-harder-in-winter-1209

 

LOL, what Cosmo for dating advice?

 

This is probably true!