I think I found my soulmate. Before this guy came along I didn't even believe in them, but now I don't think I can deny it. We compliment each other so well and I don't think I've felt this happy or alive in years. So here's the thing though...we were together/dating for several months before we had sex. We did a lot of other things, and it was great! We both felt so connected and it was just amazing. After we had sex though he seemed to start spacing out a little bit, and it felt like he wasnt totally with me. I doesn't always feel like this but sometimes it does. He said it's because he has a hard time focusing in general most times, which is true, but it makes me wonder if i'm doing something wrong. He told me I was great but I dunno. Everything else in the relationship is fine...more than fine. Do you think it could be that he just got back from Iraq this year? I know he has nightmares and sometimes spaces out anyway...he has a really hard time talking about those things, though he's opened up to me a bit. Should I not think anything of it?