Basically i've met this guy through a few friends. and he lives quite far away. we've been speaking for two months and we are in love. we deicded to meet up next weekend, but as im only young i'm in college and dont have a job..i dont have much money.. so i said i wouldnt be able to afford to pay for half the hotel..and does he mind meeting up in the middle of may instead... I dno, he acts like he doesnt want to pay for the full hotel, even tho he said he would if it ment he could see me next weekend.. i dont know.. is this normal.. im so confused... heres a conversation we had Me . says (18:41): *erm if i cant. do u wana meet up in middle of may instead? tht way ill have double the money He says (18:41): *:/ Me says (18:42): *i reali do wana see u nxt week tho =( He says (18:42): *I'd rather go next week *obv Me . says (18:42): *wel yea me too bt like u sed... dnt want u to have to pay for the hotel urself He says (18:43): *hmm lol He says (18:44): *if my fathead manager payed my flight money it wouldnt be a problem at all He says (18:46): *i dont want to wait till may *id rather pay myself Me says (18:46): *but its not rightttttt He says (18:46): *it wouldnt be right if u had the money but werent contributing He says (18:47): *but its not ur fault babe is it *plus if i get that sainsburys job *ill have earned the hotel money back in a week ... is it just me being selfish or should he actually be the one offering to pay for the full hotel? =/ help please
he is in a tight spot, ive been in that spot before, he has enough for flight and hotel but its gonna leave him flat ass broke, and he also really wants too see you. Id just leave the ball in his court, I went and suffered 2 weeks after that. but now im older and have lots of money thank god.
