Hi all I've been questioning myself for a while now. (3years to be exact) My questioning is about my Orientation and if my a woman trap in a man body. My reason of my questioning is the following *I love anal sex *I love to watch gay and shemale porn. Rarely straight porn *I found a cock more sexy than a vagina *I'm having problem in doing my girlfriend. Except if i doggystyle her. *I like to dress in woman clothing (that about my trans questioning) *I don't like eating my gf vagina Other reason that make me think im neither (that why im confuse) *I don't like guy *I don't like cum (too much bitter) *I act too manly most of the time (for my trans questioning) So that it for 3 years im questioning myself on that. Any help is appreciated
If you were single, I'd tell you to explore your sexuality with other people to better understand. But since you are in a relationship, I wouldn't venture there. Sexuality comes in many different shapes, and everyone is different. As long as it's between consenting adults and you don't hurt anyone, I don't see a problem in there. The big thing (especially if you come from a religious country, like here in Southern Europe) is managing NOT to feel guilty. I've struggled for a long time with my taste in men, and you know what I can do about it? Nothing. That's what I am, and there's no reason to even *wanting* to change that. In the "discovering yourself" part, consider the emotional part, along with the sexual part. I consider myself bisexual, I physically like girls and can get aroused with them, but I know that emotionally it wouldn't work. For a relationship I need a man.
I'm the same except the other way around: I'm bi but an emotional relationship with a man wouldn't work for me because of the lack of any emotion that I have ever felt towards a man. Greel, ask yourself this, could you fall in love with a man? The answer to that question might help. But sexual orientation can be a complicated business, probably best ignored. My girlfriend doesn't like giving head but that doesn't make her gay or bi. It's just how she is.
First off, welcome to Hip Forums. I see your a new member like myself, so welcome. Will try to give advice where I can, but by no means am I an expert or anything. Just giving advice from my point of view and from my past experiences. First: "I love anal sex". --> Congrats, You've found something that turns you on or that makes you feel good. Be happy about it Everyone has things that turn them on / off, and either feels good or doesn't feel good. Everybody is unique in their sexuality. It doesn't make you any label, it just is one facet of your sexuality. Embrace it and go enjoy some good butt sexings when you can Second: Watching porn. Just another part of your sexuality. Find out what works for you and have fun. Watching gay porn doesn't make a person gay... being in love with a member of the same gender does There are countless studies that show that straight people, of either gender, can be turned on by gay porn, or solo masturbation porn of the same gender. It doesn't mean they are gay or anything. All it means is that is a type of porn that does it for you. Third: Same type of thing with this. There are a lot of women who find women sexy and men that find the male body sexy to look at. It's just what type of eye candy you find pleasing to look at. It's just like types of porn and whatnot. Each one is a small part of your sexuality and who you are. Taking by itself, it doesn't mean anything other than you find penises sexy Your line "i don't like guy" should tell you more about that. Sexuality is very complicated and confusing. My bottom line advice is try to be yourself. Do what makes you happy in life and enjoy it. Find out what does it for you in sexuality and ignore all labels. All in all though, it sounds to me like you are straight and just have some preferences in your sexuality. You like gay porn and looking at pretty penises. So, have fun with it and enjoy the time you spend with your girlfriend And forget about trying to fit yourself nice and neat into labels.
