Conforming or Accepting or Somewhere in between

Do you ever feel like saying ah just screw it and gimmie some cake and let me sleep till noon and other days where you feel like you want to fit the ideal or image concious standards? Or are you one of those normal and stable people who are consistently fall somewhere in between?
I think this may be in large part due to hormones and women are better to talk about this stuff with. That's why I am posting it in this forum.

 

yeah, i'm somewhere in between. i'm lucky in my looks and wit, so the rest has never really been a hard battle. i got really big after kai, finally got the weight off three years later, got pregnant again, still working on getting those pounds off. but it's not for looks, really. it's to be able to play with my girls the way i should be able to. i'm not used to being gigantic, it's really hampering my moves. but i'm not going to kill myself and go nuts trying to get there, i don't really have the time.