My current partner has a real fetish for using condoms, even though we don't need them. She Loves putting them on my cock and using them seemed to give her a real boost to her sex drive. Has anyone else ever had any experience like that?
Sure have. The first pussy I ever fucked started with a condom over my cock. She took her time in putting it on and I was so hard watching her do it. Alas, after that problems arose. Trouble was back then, the 60's, condoms or rubbers as we called them, really sucked and my cock was to big for them. After fucking her for a while she pushed me out, took the rubber off, and pulled me back in bare. What a difference that was. But that was then and now is totally different. One thing the AIDS epidemic did was cause condom manufacturers to design better ones. So when I started to fuck other women after my spouse had to become celibate it was some 40 years later. Enter the new world of condom use. Wasn't worried about making babies but STD's are out there. I researched for the best kind to fit me and also how to use or prepare to use them. Finding the correct size, and they do come in many sizes, is essential. Adding lube inside before putting one on makes a lot of difference. Then how it's placed over the cock makes for a fun way to get to that promised land, the pussy. I love it when my partner surprises me with a condom in her mouth going deep throat on my cock. She'll come up off the shaft and there it is. All snug and nice on my cock. Lubed inside so when I enter the pussy I feel everything. It's almost like fucking bare. That's the fun of using condoms. It amazes me how some of the women I've had sex with can put the condom over my cock with their mouth. Look into this technique and have your GF try it. It really can add to the foreplay and if she deep throats when doing it that's all the better.
She does do that now and again and I love when she does, I did go out with a girl that would slip the condom over the head and then roll t down the shaft as she didn't like deep throat oral. I have to agree condoms have much improved since I started using them in the mid eighties, and I did find an old pack of durex gossamer behind my parents chest of drawers when I was looking in there when I was about 12 i did try them on for a wank and they were really much thicker than today's ones. Though I do miss the oblong package over the square ones.
My wife hates them, tried many over the years and she just doesn't find them comfortable. We don't use them normally anyway these days but I must admit that I always did like the feel of her rolling them on, never an interruption for me, always felt good
Once had a girlfriend who loved the ribbed condoms. Otherwise she preferred bareback; she was on the pill.
I often had a condom on but one experience I felt was special in a way was the first time I met a fwb. We got to the motel room as I travelled to her area and she could not have me at her house, and after some talking she took the lead. After we were both naked her face was like WOW, her eyes, an expression I will never forget. After she gave me amazing oral she put the condom on, she enjoyed unrolling it, and she climbed on me. She pleasured herself on my cock with a very content look on her face after working my cock in slowly and carefully. after a couple of minutes she had a bit of a frown on her face and stopped, she asked YOU SAID YOU ARE CLEAN, RIGHT? I said I am, and fixed She said she was clean and asked if we could do it without the condom. She ripped it off and tossed it somewhere in the room and slid herself down on my cock again. Again, the look on her face! And the big smile as she continued pleasuring herself. I loved feeling her wetness and texture as well, she fucked and used my cock to her orgasm before I had mine, she was quite pleased feeling me cum inside her.
Umm, no. Quite the opposite. We’ve declined sex sometimes, with each other and with other couples, if condoms were a necessity or requirement at the time. Neither of us like the feel of them and neither of us want a barrier between any during sex. Lastly, the complete, and preferably multiple, exchange of fluids is both expected and desirable.
My wife seems to like them to mix it up. Not a fan of condoms but open to keeping it interesting. Must try lube inside
I use them with lovers I just met. I use lots of lube and foreplay for vaginal or anal sex so the condom does not cause irritation. For oral I only use lube on the inside of the of a flavored condom. I find that I have to penetrate deeper and more vigorously with a condom to reach an orgasm because of the loss of sensitivity. However, when I need a good fuck and only have someone new to play with, sex with condoms is far better than solo masturbation or no sex at all, especially if my new partner is also up for vigorous and/or vocal sex.
In the Netherlands they give them out for free to anyone at any age. At first it was for teenage pregnancy they soon realized both boys and girls well before puberty were playing with them teaching them how to open and unroll them. Boys were using them for masturbation and that was getting them use to the feel and be able to orgasm wearing one. In America a cartoon drawing is all they see late in high school. The first time they actually see one is the very first time they are going to have sex! It also removed any fear of asking for one.
I myself have a massive fetish for condoms… I have a thing for latex so I believe that is the driving force behind it. I have used all types from latex, the non-latex polymeres, and both female and male condoms as well as a ton of the weird off shoot condoms with weird attachments.