When my fwb and I have sex, I always use a condom. Recently, we've been talking about trying it without the condom since she's on the pill. My question is, what's the difference between wearing a condom and not wearing one? How does it feel different?
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Condoms are simply about penetration. He is inside my body. That's it! No condom includes him ejaculating inside me - that is such a special thing. Mostly I am with women, but when I do have a guy share my bed, (or me his) condoms are a rarity. (I'm tubally sterilized - he's effectively shooting blanks!!!)
The very old answer to this is that it feels like you have stopped eating your Mars Bar with the wrapper on! That said, the use of very thin condoms might make things feel more realistic.
seriously consider your safety first. think about the danger you are exposing yourself to. do you really know who else your partner is having sex with? (no, you don't)
And this is why STDs are running rampant. Use a condom!! A condom will feel a million times better for the man if you put a couple drops of lube on the inside of it before putting it on.
So, so right! I work in community health & see the results of not using condoms daily....unwanted pregnancies & STDs. Only ever stop using them once you know for certain that your partner is a: disease free & b: you are using a reliable alternative method of contraception or you are looking to get pregnant.
This may come as a shock, but love and monogamy are not synonymous for everyone. I'm very much in love, and choose to have safe sex outside of my marriage.
I can't stand condoms and never use them with my lady, but when we play with others it is a must for me and for any others she plays with! Not worth the risk of getting something myself and passing it on to my lady after.
I prefer not to wear condom, but if a relationship is new or I know that a girl has many partners then I'd wear one, I think you have to stay safe until you know for sure that it's safe not to use one and your partner has to feel the same.