i have a slight problem with premature ejactulation, im planning on having sex this weekend. if i cum in the condom can i just keep having sex? because i dont want to let her down... if is there some way for the sperm to fall out of the condom.??
I never used a condom before. Then again, my son was born when I was 20 and now Im a single parent and extremely broke. So..... Wu Tang!!!
The condom is held on by the male's tumminensnece (?sp). For the condom to be effective, you should withdraw from her very soon (10 sec.??) after your orgasm.
change condoms after you ejaculate... some can seep out during continued thrusting and, well, that kind of defeats the whole point of condoms tehn
If the condom rips, you're fucked man. Why would you risk that? Try jacking off like 10 times a day before the weekend. You'll have hard time even getting up let alone premature ejaculating.
Another option is buying condoms that have a special lubricant that will help delay your climax. http://www.trojancondoms.com/productdetails.aspx?product_id=31 You can also get a free sample condom if you're willing to fill out their survey and wait 6-8 weeks. Most condom brands have this kind available and you can usually find them in any drug store or online if you're self-concious about it.
Anonymous - you may already have had your weekend sex, but I will offer my experise as a lay sex therapist with this - check out my other posts in the "Love and Sex" forum regarding curing premature ejaculation. I offer seven or eight tricks to use to get by this problem. If you can't find them, PM me. Regarding continuing to thrust after you have cum, your penis will stay mostly hard for a half minute or so after you have cum, so you can continue to thrust if she has not finished, although there is a slight risk of some of the spent cum leaking out the top of the condom. If you have a reservoir tip in the condom this should not be a problem, unless you have ejaculated a large amount of cum.
Probably not. It starts going soft right after u cum so it would probably be more embarrasing if she thought u had just gone soft midbang than if u cum early!
Or you can just go ahead and cum, pull out, and then proceed to give her a good and vigorous finger-fucking while you lick her clitoris. Just because you cum first doesn't mean you can't make her feel good. You don't always get to synchronize your orgasms (or time them so they occur after hers) - and you don't have to obsess about it. Just make sure she gets hers.
Pull out and switch condoms, don’t take the chance of becoming a babies daddy. Any porn shop will have like sprays and jells and stuff to keep you "Strong like bull"
