ok so i have this lover of mine who complains i give him too many blow jobs (really he does complain) wich i think is da dummest shit a guy can complain about and well he justifys his naggin by saying he dont please me wen i give him a blow job and i told him countless times im happy to give him a blow job because i like the reaction from him (he rolls his eyes into the back of his head and grunts and moans...i love his reaction) well i wanna know how do i get him to stop complaining ??? ive tried talkin to him but all he does is complain. or have n e of u guys complained about too many blowjobs.....??
I dated this chick in college for a coupla weeks, Everytime we'd hang out, she'd be blowing me, It would have rocked if she didnt suck at it....
just reasure him that u live to suck his cock. and say it real dirty and really love it. and seriously i would never complain about somthing like that. when my Xgf started sucking my dick, i had to give her a few pointers and she got better at it the more she did it. i like teeth and lightly bighting the end of my dick and stuff...
i havnt done anal with this specific lover.....he is still sorta new to the whole "having sex onda regular" thing i didnt think about this lol i do actually say it to him like that n this lover is still new to sex i dnt think he would like the biting (although i do have another lover who loves the biting, and its not light biting its lke a real hard bite like ill keep biting harder n harder until he pulls me by my hair off his cock....) haha n e thing is possible....
Talk to him about it. You aren't in a sexual relationship with any of us. It's pretty obvious that he wants more mutual pleasure. Ask him what he would like for you two to do instead.
My ex bf loved blowjobs, I had a lot of fun with him I would give so often. My current bf now doesnt seem to enjoy them and said he cant ever cum from bjs kinda makes me feel shitty. I've heard some guys just dont like them as much, I never believed it until I met this guy because I used to have guys in the palm of my hand with blowjobs. 69 is a good idea but I know it doesnt always work for everyone, I know for me and my last 2 bfs it didnt because they are much taller than I am.
I had the opposite problem... She wouldn't do it at all. I would never complain about head, unless she sucked at sucking lol.
It sounds more like you argued. TALK. Ask hjim what he would like. Ask him why it bothers him, etc. etc. Or just dump the mother fucker and find someone exactly like you, so communication isn't needed