Coming on too strongly

what do you do when you feel you have come on too strongly with someone?

whether it be parenting and yelling.
or being drunk, kicking someone's ass and regretting it the next morning
or being too overly sexual

whatever the situation. do you apologize? run away? ignore it? store it in your list of "i won't do that again"

 

all depends on the situation.

 

When I was drunk and would say hurtful things to people I always apologized the next day.

If I've ever been too flirty....I back off and pretend it never happened and I don't allow it to happen again.

 

any of the above.

 

Just take it as a lesson I suppose.

I believe it's important to strive for balance in all things.

...Beautiful.

 

i'm not a parent. i've never gotten into a drunken fight (except maybe with myself). whenever i try to hit on someone, i pretty much just end up ignoring it .

 

poor undie.

 

generally, i don't have much a problem yelling at someone. i'll apologize if i find out i'm wrong though

i've apologized a bunch for being way too drunk - too many times to count

i didn't apologize to the girl who i spanked with a frying pan on her ass....

 

you know Treehugger, you remind me of me

 

wow fitzy...she must have really wanted it. cast iron? just off the burner?

you did not do that, did you?

 

i was way to drunk to know if she wanted it or not, but my friends said she was giggling. it was just a frying pan that was hanging on the wall.

don't ask, i don't know why haha, it was just there. so i spanked her a few times. i spanked a bunch of people that night. then i lost the ability to walk

 

oh that is the best story ever

I went to a bar once and right before the bar closed down, it got really spanky. I have no idea why but people were lining up to be spanked.

my friend was there and so i ran across the room and did a slide on the floor, on my knees(Risky Business style) and smacked her ass so hard that she had a hand print for a couple days.

 

I wanted to kill our drummer the other night

but then I realized that I had done about 7 shots of whiskey. I did apologize, even though I wasn't totally in the wrong

I hate feeling bad about something I said

 

So do I gary....so do i.

I live it in my head over and over and over and over. i have a hard time letting go when I feel like an ass

 

I hate feeling bad about something I said too. It drives me nuts. I'll apologize whenever I hurt someone's feelings or feel like I was out of line.

 

Act silly. It usually allows me to feel like what I do isn't all that serious and people pick up on that.

 

usually just apologize or ignore it...but settling matters quickly is the best way.

 

Don Genaro is my fav character in the Castenada books. He's just so far out there.....I Love him.

I agree with settling matters quickly....or my stomach eats itself alive.

 

i'd say it does depend entirely on the situation...

 

mine to..and your the first to notice where the name comes from..but yeah, if I dont settle it quickly it takes away lots of power..I hate that..and believe me, I have not settled things as quickly as I should have before. Very liberating when it is settled and completed.