Cant believe how open everyone is about this subject. Its fun reading all these posts. After reading them its nice to know that im definitely not the only one that does some of those things. Thanks!
I think this is one of the most valuable functions a forum like this has, it allows us to see that most human beings are highly sexual. Our society has taught us all to hide our sexuality, our desires and our needs and pretend like we don't really want or enjoy sex as much as we actually do. It is a relief and liberating to learn that you are not alone in having those desires and enjoying the things that you do enjoy and being able to admit it and talk about it with other people.
I would guess 99.999% of human beings past the age of 15 masturbate. When I was age 13 - 17 or so I knew most boys did it but I thought I was the only one who went to such effort finding various places and situations to masturbate. Even in young adulthood spending significant time alone, especially outdoors, it was the same... As a middle-age adult especially with exposure to the internet now I know that what I was doing and experiencing was commonplace.
I love doing it and reading some of these post kinda makes me feel like its ok to try different things.
My wife told me one day, that masturbating was only a guy thing & woman don't - sure needs educated doesn't she lol
Yeah, and my middle-age Russian ex-girlfriend tried to tell me that adolescent boys in Russia don't masturbate.
It's interesting to see how many people do things that I used to consider "strange" or just over the top. It also makes me wonder how many people I know who are secretly thinking of the same stuff.
might be just a rare to nonexistant occurrence for her (I rarely do) - the problem here is in projecting ones own experience on everyone else, that is just unfair.
merely widespread not universal, some people are open minded about that others do - not everyone is a fundamentalist about how they experience/live life.
