Cis-women always ask me this...

It hasn't happened in about 10 years, but I remember almost every one of my girlfriends and female friends would eventually ask me what it was like having a penis. Did anyone else with a penis get asked that by people with a vulva often?

Look, I get it. I mean I really get it as someone who wishes they were born female. Totally understandable to be curious what it's like to have the other type of genitals. It's why this forum is here.

The thing I always found curious about being asked that particular question and the way they asked it, is that I always asked very specific questions about what this or that feels like when you have a clit or a vagina or whatever. Not the general somatic sensation of having a vulva at any given moment. Know what I mean?

They all basically wanted to know what it felt like just to have a penis. To have "something" down there on the outside. I would tell them it doesn't feel like anything because you're just used to it being there and it's the only thing you know. It's soft and maleable. So, no, I don't feel it being there most of the time.

Again, I do understand why that would seem like more answerable a question than what it's like to not have an extremity between your legs. But I never bothered asking that because I figured, how could you say what it's like without any comparison. To that point, whatever else I'd say to answer the question as best I could, I'd always end it with: "The best way I can describe it is that it's like if someone asked you what it's like to have thumbs."

 

I have been asked that question a few different times over the course of my existence. I was asked by a couple different girls while going through puberty and by a few different women later in life. I don't remember every coming up with a valid or credible answer. This is invariably one of the great unanswerable questions in the universe. I can think of quite a few that might seem easy to answer, but are actually very difficult.

What does it feel like when you slide your cock into a pussy?
What's it feel like when someone slides a cock into your pussy?
What does cum taste like?
What's it feel like to suck a cock?
Describe what it feels like for a male or female to have an orgasm?
What does pussy taste like?

These are some of the questions that you would think you could answer, but any answer always seems insufficient!!

 

Easy!


What does it feel like when you slide your cock into a pussy? Not all that different from a mouth without the teeth and tounge.
What's it feel like when someone slides a cock into your pussy?
What does cum taste like? A little bitter but the texture really overtakes the taste, honestly. The texture is what it looks like, big globs of goo but covered in a thin film of slime that makes it simultaneously semi-solid but also wet and slippery.
What's it feel like to suck a cock? Empowering!
Describe what it feels like for a male or female to have an orgasm? Male: You start to feel a euphoric energy rush from different points of your body and build up in your penis, while your head also experiences a rushing euphoric build up that makes you want to stimulate your penis harder and faster. That lasts for maybe 2-4 seconds. Then all that energy that built up releases in a big rush where the feeling of the semen shooting through the inside of your penis, a sometimes tickel-y or pins and needles or gotta pee kinda feeling in your penis' nerve endings, all your muscles contract and tighten and you get a huge but quick head rush. All of those feelings happen so quickly, they mix together into a big messy singular sensation of all that bodily energy releasing. That part isn't as euphoric as the build-up and lasts a few seconds. Followed by a slow but steady come down as all your muscles relax and you feel super calm.
What does pussy taste like? Stale beer with a bit of iron. I like it!