Childhood Sweeheart

He works down the street. I see him now and then.

 

I was sorta joking about the hurt. I loved this girl from age6 to age12. She always gave me enough hope to hang on , but never actually was 'my girl'.

In fact, now that I think about it, she was blonde. Maybe that's subconciously why I've never been with a blonde. Weird.

 

1 is/was a total druggie burnout...shooting heroin up and what not.

1 had moved out to western MA - i have thought about her and what she had been doing...she was the first girl i had kissed haha

 

Mine was the only red head I've ever dated.

Since I'm a red head, I believe it's why we conflicted a lot. Too much joie de vive from the both of us.

 

Same... The only guy i can think of is who i fancied when i was 12 and then in march this year - he's in most of my classes actually but hes a dick.

 

my first girlfriend crushed me when she sent her friend to the playground to tell me she was dumping me. I was nine or ten. couldn't bring myself to enter another relationship for years.

 

Believe it or not...we're together and talking about marriage! HAHA

We grew up together...he was my best friend, lived around the corner from me. we got in all kinds of trouble as kids...I hadn't seen him in 6 years...and ran into him back in December.

My family has been all over us getting married already LOL

 

My middle school crush and i did a rekindle thing in high school after i moved for a BRIEF weekend thing, then i didn't see her for 10 years then we got together and were a couple for almost a year, and broke up. We still talk and i still love her like no other just for some reason i can't bring myself to tell her.

 

One of them is married to the ex best friend that stole her and jumped me at my job with some of his buddies. Hopefully not still living the white trash life that everybody predicted for them, though I doubt they've escaped it.

The other is married with kids and seems to be really happy in life.

Another is in the middle of a divorce, after a number of years, and has found a guy who seems to be a much nicer, better person for her and her children.

Those are the only big ones to mention.

 

aww this is such a cute thread..

there was this kid i went to preschool with, and we were "engaged" when we were four years old, and we were inseperable from the ages of 2-6, then we started going to different schools.

he actually lives right down the street from my parents but i havent seen him since we were little

 

I have no idea what happened to the boy I kissed when I was 6. I only hung out with boys in elementary, so I "dated" like all of them, lol. But my jr. high boyfriend, Andy, is a Marine (his lifelong dream! I'm so happy for him) and is engaged to be married.

 

Wow slutty slutterson. Way to prey on innocent children. haha

 

The boy I "loved" in elementary school - he's in prison. haha
My first true love - married the girl he started dating after we broke up.
The guy I fell hard for when I was 18 is now dead.

 

johnny mitchell. he was huck fin and tom sawyer wrapped up in a perfect boy. he was wonderful, alive, lively and happy. my first love. then donald minsart. always in trouble, but so sweet and alive. he was kindness, joy and smart wrapped up in the kid who was just so alive that he couldn't help but be in trouble. i love those people with sweet, beautiful hearts that are so alive they can't help but get in trouble from time to time. don't think about the consequences all the time, live. i never forgot their lessons. i learned to be more me from them. dave, the one i married, is also that guy. i shake my head, i roll my eyes, i fear, i worry and i soak up their sunlight. they're ALIVE. i could only wish to be so good.

 

i was never one to have "boyfriends" when i was under 10 although i was crushing on this one boy for years during little school. ive seen him now and he grew up to be really hot but i get the impression he's up himself so he's lost my interest.

 

Now that you mention it, I think I have hand-holding herpes.

 

you know, i've never failed to have a major soft spot for bad boys with a heart of gold.

 

Same here.

 

i think it's a sign of a good woman. love a man, come what may. let them be themselves. man, what a reward. yeah, you'll worry from time to time, but they always know the value of what they found. more valuable than rubies.

 

Wow, harsh. I've never understood people who go for other people's girlfriends/boyfriends. Surely with 6 billion people, everyone can find one of their own.

Such a healthy attitude. So much better than some of the girls I've dated who wanted to make me a better person. Give me some space, I'll do it myself.